New York and Company

the day for LOVE

2012-02-15T19:08:00.000-08:00

My sweet boys enjoying their LOVE SUGAR!

The adorable gifts the boys gave Wes and I!

Sweet Tascha (one responsible for the SUPER CRAFTS the boys made) She is so creative and just loves my boys to death... Thanks T for being such a kind and compassionate person in our lives!

2012 brought my BEST Valentines Day yet... York walked around shouting about "Valentines day" and his Party at school! He told me it was the day for LOVE and that he really loved his P-dawg. I heard him tell Perry last night..."Do you know how much I luv you P?". Wowzers.. talk about MELT this mommas heart! To see York's face as I opened the gifts he so delicately made and kept a "secret" for 2 days was priceless. I love that he enjoys giving as much as receiving. What a gift in itself. Perry of course was ALL SMILES as he inhaled one sugar cookie after another. Perry is at such a sweet age... he adores everything York does and encourages his wacky behavior. I hope York will always look at Perry with protective love and that P will appreciate it. I try even now to teach the two that there is no bond like a brothers and how important it is to love them with all of our hearts all of the time. I hope I can help their bond strengthen each day so it will never unravel... the closeness of siblings is so incredibly important. I hope they will work to nurture that relationship as long as they live.

A BOYS WORLD: Food for thought

Boys Boys Boys... I try hard to understand them and relate as much as possible but it isn't easy. Like why do boys stink? (if your a girl mom you will not appreciate this statement)... I can pull them out of the tub and they smell like a wet dog. Not their fault... its just BOYS! And what is with their continual need for pain or is it plain stubbornness? If I tell the boys not to put their finger in the drawer because it will shut and HURT them and they continually do said behavior multiple times- shouldn't they learn a lesson?.... don't girls learn the first time that their action provided a unsavory response therefore they shouldn't do it a second time? NOT the case at my house. "Boys will be Boys" is that saying finally registering with me? I think so! And what is with the need to growl or make "vicious" sounds at one another when they aren't 100% happy...?? Is that just my kids? Is it really fun to sound like a character from Nightmare on Elm street? It is really that intimidating? Does it make mom want to growl back... is that the intended response? And that FUN-Happy violence... you know the kind... the I'm so excited and having such a wonderful day that I feel the need to headbutt or tackle someone! Maybe jump from couch to couch on top of parental target or climb the outside of the stairs because that isn't nearly as dangerous as ascending the more traditional way! hmmm... thoughts? Lastly... why does one crying child lead another down the same tearful avenue? We have to cry in unison? Do we NOT need a reason for waterworks? I always thought so...

For now I will continue to observe the weird behavior and actions of one "all knowing (because he asks WHY every other word)" handsome 3 year old and his "precious lil mimic/sidekick". Until next time -signing out from BOY-verse

Jabber Jaws is on a R O L L

2012-02-06T13:55:00.000-08:00

"How old are you York?" -mom

"I'm TREE!" -York

"That makes me do BAD things momma!" -York

(culprit: loud music)

"Look at the Chii- new on TV" -York

I look at the screen to see a Chinese gentleman

There is an African American man that narrates York's movie .. Big Rigs. At one point in the show he exclaims "I'm a NATURAL!" as he drives a large tractor. York watches this show nightly... to say he is obsessed is an understatement. Recently we were watching the news and York notices...

"Mom he is a natural" -York

"huh??" -mom

"That man is a natural!" -York

((Then I realize it is an African American news anchor... York now thinks all Black people are naturals! This makes me laugh!))

"I'm hard mommy... I'm made out of WOOD" -York

I was applying my make up when York asks "WHY?"

"So I dont look ugly!" -mom

"I love you ugly momma" -York

At dinner the other night Perry began his "I'm done with my dinner so I'll scream until someone picks me up" fit and York looks over at Wes and says, "What are we going to do with this child?"

We were driving down the interstate and hit several pot holes and York yells, "You almost knock my teef out of my mouf!"

"Don't be lazy Daddy... be healthy" -York

(Trying to get Wes to play outside with him!)

"That's how I roll... in the street" -York

The other night in the car Wes says to me... "I thought Baklava was Jewish" As I explained that it was not ... York chimed in with "I thought blocklablob was juuwich! and Jewish is a girl!"

2012-02-02T19:19:00.000-08:00

BABY 3 UPDATE

I will be 16 weeks tomorrow and am feeling this little guy all the time. Although I am yet to "pooch" I am reminded of this tiny miracle throughout the day with his somersaults! It's such a sweet time ... watching my boys grow into little men and experiencing the physical and emotional growth/ change within my own body. Each stage is as exciting and challenging as the next. I will begin my weekly shots tomorrow along with continued prayers that this babe will stay put as long as possible. The shots are not the easiest but the benefits far outweight the weekly pain! I am feeling good other than the occasional "vom" session... which is becoming further and far between! I am CRAZY tired and cant remember being this tired with the other 2. I feel sure that I will pop soon because I can feel the hard mass migrating out of my pelvis. Pants are getting tighter and my hormonal rages are ramping up. (sorry Wes) I am already thinking about how much our Power Bill will be come July! W O W... need to start saving now. I am already one hot hormonal mess and it is only January -granted we are having unseasonably warm weather. I am trying to keep my miles up but some days it just isn't happening ... I am learning to cope with that. All in all this has been an uneventful but blessed pregnancy and hope it continues that way! Updates soon...

2012-01-27T19:49:00.000-08:00

Happy 14 months little P-baby!

Perry is such a happy baby and enjoys being loved on. He is happiest when he is on your hip! He likes to follow York and me everywhere including the bathroom. I'm convinced that he will be potty trained before York!! He loves to sit on the little potty while we are in there. (What is it like to use the facilities without children pulling the toilet paper off the roll, slamming the seat lid up and down while you wash your hands, or flushing while you are still going?... hmm) He loves to snack but refuses to eat REAL food. His daily diet includes: oatmeal, bananas, fruit cups, yogurt, an occasional chicken and stars or turkey and rice meal, and vegetable pouches. Yes he is 14 months and I have to do the veggie pouches mixed with fruit. He adores all fruit, fresh and dried. Any type of snack food: gold fish, teddy grahams, ritz, crackers, peanut butter, nutella, etc. He will not even try new food... I try to give him pieces of meat here and there and he spits it out and make the biggest mess. I even try to get York to feed him because he loves all interaction with his bubba. NOPE.. he clenches his teeth and shakes his head. He is such a turkey. Forget trying to sneak in a real vegetable at dinner... NO WAY! It ends up on the floor or smeared all over the table... FOOD ART! It is the most irritating thing in the entire world. Luckily he loves his milk and drinks it without a problem most of the time. York NEVER turned away food... N E V E R! So this is a completely different ball game and I'm loosing! I have spoken to our pediatrician and she suggest only offering the real thing at meal times and he will eventually eat. I can't do it. . . I have to feed my little runt! Even if he goes to Kindergarten with spinach and pear pouches... hehe! He sleeps great and has since about 10 weeks! No complaints there!! I guess you cant win them all! He loves trucks and makes the best "truck" noises while driving them all over the place. He also loves to point and thinks it is hysterical when you point back at him... ie the E.T! He runs after his brother everywhere and loves to tackle him! He will imitate A N Y T H I N G his brother does and that is D A N G E R O U S. He recently attempted the outside of the stairs ... thank you Brother! When York is put in time out and crying ensues Perry is right there with him... sympathy cries! (or a symphony of cries to be exact) Oh the sounds of LIFE! This sweet life that I'm so blessed to lead. The precious moments when its just me and my boys on the floor laying together... those moments can't get better. The joy that explodes from my heart when Perry reaches over to touch his brother or York leans over for a kiss without my prompting. The amazing things these little boogers pick up on each second. It is truly a once and a lifetime experience that is going by entirely to quickly. I hope that when I read these words 10 years from now the sweet feelings will spill over me and take me back to this unforgettable time. Life with 2 boys... life that doesn't slow down, life so overwhelming it brings me to tears one moment then exploding laughter the next, life that can't be measured in words, life that proves how great our Creator is in the simple things -like looking into the eyes of your child and seeing your own, feeling their tiny fingers as they hold your hand or pat your back, or hearing the sweet words, "mommy I need you!" or "do you know how much I love you?". Wow.. what those simple words do to a momma! They make each diaper change, meal made, grocery trip, and mounds of laundry worth the hassle. Truth is there is nothing like raising children... Truth is each milestone and moment is affirmation that this is what you were born to do. I am blessed to be a mom and take incredible pride in raising the best boys I can! I love them to MARS and back! (( stole that from York))

I'm all JACKED up!

2012-01-27T08:44:00.000-08:00

"Dad.. I can't fire you!" -York

"York why did you poop your pants?" -me

"God told me to!" -York

((Perry is taking EVERY toy York has in "his area"))

"P that's NOT cool!" -York

"How long have you been sitting in poop?" -me

"umm... just a couple of hours" -York

"York... what is P doing? -me

"Uh.. he's just chillin" -York

"Daddy... please shave your wis-jers" -York

"You look great today... that outfit is so cute" -me

"Yea... I look FANCY" -York

"Perry is such a ras-cer" (rascal) -York

"York, look at those birds on our hill..." -me

"Oh that's cute! just adorable!" -York

"Dad... dont grab my ear LUBE!" (ear lobe) -York

"York.. your pants are falling down!" -me

"You need to buy me a belt!" -York

"York.. you are going to have a NEW baby brother!" -me

"No... I already have a bruder, I'll take a sister thank you." -York

and this weeks FAVORITE.......

"York that is too much sugar" -Dad

"Yea... I'm all jacked UP!" -York

Adding another B O Y...

2012-01-23T14:13:00.000-08:00

to the Harless roster!

Our sweet family friend who normally takes a little "peak" around 15 weeks gave us the news on Friday. We are thrilled to be welcoming another precious BOY to the mix come summer. I think it is the perfect fit for our CRAZY life and I couldn't be happier. York still refers to the baby as her... we will work on that! I have decided on buying a new baby bed and moving Perry upstairs in his... he isn't quite ready to take the "big boy" bed plunge. I found a sweet new bedding for Perry's new room and baby 3 will inherit the same bedding both boys used before him. Poor little guy... hand me down baby!! At least little boys wont care... right? Since Perry also used it I felt is was time for him to get something of his very own. Once H3 gets a little older ... he to will get new bedding as well! (just keeping it fair)

Oh that is a whole other blog... how do you keep things FAIR? I remember growing up with 2 other siblings and the "fair" discussion was raised frequently. You want each of your children to feel special and treated as individuals ... but how hard is it to find a happy medium? Does that even exist? I remember my mother telling us that we were each different children with different personalities that needed discipline and rewards accordingly. I never thought that was FAIR!!! I guess you get older and get over it...? I will do my best to make each of my boys feel special and make it my mission to establish some sort of FAIR-ness amongst them. Whew... I better start anticipating certain situations!

Looks like I will have my hands full...

On another note... my best friend delivered a beautiful healthy baby GIRL! (the first of her "kind" within our group) I was able to hold that perfect baby for a while today and visit her family in the hospital! Prayers for mom and baby to come home safely! Congratulations and Much love to the Henderson Family!

We are definitely having a HE... or a SHE!

2012-01-14T10:29:00.000-08:00

Girl or Boy...

that seems to be the question. Although it is more important that I pray for a healthy baby with the ability to learn and love ...the gender question hangs in the back of my mind. This is most likely our last pregnancy and I guess that is why it is KILLING me to find out. ((Also had an ultrasound tech tell us at 10.5 weeks that she would venture to say it was another BOY)) It is definitely a different pregnancy than it was with the boys, but if you go by the "girl" and "boy" wives tales then I should have had 2 girls already. With the boys pregnancies I was SUPER sick until 19 weeks, had the horrible pregnancy mask, and wanted SWEETS constantly. Those things tend to be most prevalent with girls (from my research). This time I haven't been nearly as sick, no pregnancy mask, and and loving the salty-sweet combo. My doctor suggest that I have become "accustomed" to being pregnant and my body has 'gotten the hang' of it! Well I have to say that being pregnant annually since 2008 has made pregnancy my new norm. I cant remember what it was like to not be caring a little one. LITERALLY -either in my tummy or on my hip! I'm happy that God has chosen this path for our lives and am eagerly awaiting FEB 17... GENDER DAY! I have had 2 dreams where the ultrasound revealed twin boys! T W I N S .. that's right! I actually said "We just doubled our litter" in the dream! Some days I wake up and think boy just because I'm not sure Wes and I can produce PINK... and other days I just KNOW its a girl. We have a name which we will use regardless of gender. As for the middle name... who knows!?? York is 100% sure that baby is a GIRL and refers to her as baby girl or her/she. He asks me to open wide so he can "talk" to her. Perry obviously could care less and is just trying to concentrate on survival in this BOY ZONE!

I will have to admit that I have participated in the MANY outrageous gender predictors on the market. I did the Chinese gender calendar for gender which told me both boy and girl... 2 different sites! Then I did the wedding ring on the string held over your belly which circled. When I researched what the circling meant I found 2 websites -one that said girl and the other boy. In a moment of hormonal weakness I bought the CVS gender predictor that indicated....

And have taken a million gender quizzes online that seem to all have this result....

As you can see I have NOTHING definitive but all of this things were FUN. It makes Wesley crazy that I am so psycho about it and he just wishes I would quit talking about it for at least 10 min. I think every time we sit down for dinner I say "So what do you think deep down?" because with both boys he was always convinced they were MALE... and look he was RIGHT! At first he said girl and now has changed to BOY. I am still on the fence but deep down think BOY... maybe because that is all I know. The weeks fly by so the gender revelation is not to far away. Don't expect a "gender revelation" party from this momma! (nothing against them... it just isn't my style) I like to find out with my sweet hubby and share the news with the boys in an intimate setting and not find out with a crowd. Just personal preference I guess... So I pray that God will give me peace regardless and continue to ask him to form this gift perfectly with not only 10 fingers and 10 toes but a mind that is curious, eyes that see his beautiful world, and ears that can hear all of the loving words being spoken to him/her. ((and... maybe to throw in one of Wesley's dimples)) hehe! Until then I will live in comfort knowing that God has chosen the perfect little person to grow and flourish in my womb and I couldn't be any more blessed or happier.

Bob the boy baby...

2012-01-11T19:15:00.000-08:00

Have I shared the 2 names York has picked for baby #3? When we first told York we were expecting he offered up the name Quesidilla for a girl and tow truck for boy. Recently he has changed his mind to Little Girl baby or Daisy for a girl and bob the boy baby or York 2 for boy!!

York asks for "pupcakes" all of the time... "Pupcake please!" - Cupcake Please

I asked York "Do you think I WANT to spank you?"... he replied "Of course you DON'T mom!"

I was asked to "shut it down" the other day when ranting to a friend on the phone about mommy woes...

Perry would NOT stop crying in the car the other day and York told him to "lock it up!"

We went to McDonalds to get a "milkshake" and I was ordering a smoothie when York yells, "Smoothies make me nervous mom!"

York only likes to listen to "boy music" in the car (aka songs sung by men) so we were jaming to a little HEART when he interupts, "Mom, this in NOT a guys song!"

I tell York that we are on the way to see Mimi and Grandaddy and he replies, "That's wonderful... their my favorite colors!"

Instead of "I can't believe my eyes" York says "I don't understand my eyes!"

When talking to Perry while I was in the other room I hear him say, "Hey sugar pie!"

"I love you in the circle of God, mom!"

He asks all the time, "Do you know how much I love you?" (((MY FAVORITE!)))

York why are you yawning? "God made me yawn, silly!"

He calls EVERYONE silly goose or heifer... hmm!

True Meaning of Christmas!

2012-01-03T15:07:00.000-08:00

Below is a story about the True Meaning of Christmas... I enjoyed her website so much that I used her explanation with our pictures... I hope you enjoy! Merry Christmas!

"Teach the CHILDREN"

Santa told me...

Teach them the old meaning of Christmas. The meaning that now-a-days Christmas has forgotten. "Santa then reached in his bag and pulled out a FIR TREE and placed it before the mantle. "Teach the children that the pure green color of the stately fir tree remains green all year round, depicting the everlasting hope of mankind, all the needles point heavenward, making it a symbol of man's thoughts turning toward heaven."

This was the "infamous" Harless Christmas Tree... 13 feet tall and a MONSTER to decorate! For Wesley and York it was love at first sight when we spotted it on the Christmas tree lot. I felt that as beautiful as it was it looked like a pain to set up, decorate, take down, and keep watered!! I was right... but so was Wes! We couldn't have found a more perfect tree.

He again reached into his bag and pulled out a brilliant STAR. "Teach the children that the star was the heavenly sign of promises long ago. God promised a Savior for the world, and the star was the sign of fulfillment of His promise."

This was a gorgeous New Year firework I was able to capture on film... It reminded me of a star. Wesley put on an amazing show for us and our new neighbors -the Hendersons!!!

He then reached into his bag and pulled out a CANDLE. "Teach the children that the candle symbolizes that Christ is the light of the world, and when we see this great light we are reminded of He who displaces the darkness."

York and Turner blowing out their birthday candles.

Once again he reached into his bag and removed a WREATH and placed it on the tree. "Teach the children that the wreath symbolizes the real nature of love. Real love never ceases. Love is one continuous round of affection."

He then pulled from his bag an ORNAMENT of himself. "Teach the children that I, Santa Claus, symbolize the generosity and good will we feel during the month of December."

Our annual Bass Pro Shops Santa picture... York thinks the Bass Pro Shop is the North Pole by the way -I'm going with it!

He then brought out a HOLLY LEAF. "Teach the children that the holly plant represents immortality. It represents the crown of thorns worn by our Savior. The red holly berries represent the blood shed by Him.

Next he pulled from his bag a GIFT and said, "Teach the children that God so loved the world that he gave his begotten son." Thanks be to God for his unspeakable gift.

York was such a wonderful elf this Christmas... He learned valuable lessons in sharing and helped his brother open ALL of his gifts. This was such a special time!

Santa then reached in his bag and pulled out a CANDY CANE and hung it on the tree. "Teach the children that the candy cane represents the shepherds' crook. The crook on the staff helps to bring back strayed sheep to the flock. The candy cane is the symbol that we are our brother's keeper."

He reached in again and pulled out an ANGEL. "Teach the children that it was the angels that heralded in the glorious news of the Savior's birth. The angels sang Glory to God in the highest, on earth peace and good will toward men."

my 2 angels

Suddenly I heard a soft twinkling sound, and from his bag he pulled out a BELL,. "Teach the children that as the lost sheep are found by the sound of the bell, it should ring mankind to the fold. The bell symbolizes guidance and return.

Obviously this isn't a BELL picture but the was BOTH boys favorite gift...

Santa looked back and was pleased. He looked back at me and I saw that the twinkle was back in his eyes. He said, "Remember, teach the children the true meaning of Christmas and do not put me in the center, for I am but a humble servant of the One that is, and I bow down to worship him, our LORD, our GOD."

YORK is 3!!

2011-12-21T21:26:00.000-08:00

York turned 3 this past Saturday... we spent his birthday at the Opryland hotel in Nashville!! We met Shrek, Puss in Boots, the cast of Madagascar, and Po from Kung Fu Panda!! Wesley's mother (yaya) took us for the weekend for a Bday bash/ early Christmas Present! We had an absolute blast and especially enjoyed our breakfast with Shrek...complete with Shrek waffels and oath to enjoy!! A dance from all of the character and picture time as well! We decorated ginger bread men, rode the train, peddeled the tiny cars, and enjoyed a ride on an amazing ICE slide. The Christmas decor was just breathtaking and a nice way to get in the Christmas spirit.

((I have a BILLION pictures that I will post soon!))

Happy Happy 3rd Birthday to my oldest -the little blonde that holds my heart in the palm of his hand, my perfectly adorable, miracle baby. Each day I am amazed at all that you have learned, the many things your have taught me, and your continued love for your brother. You make my mornings sweeter with your sugar, my afternoons calmer with your naps, and my nights complete knowing you are tucked safely away in your bed. You are the funniest child I have ever met... your laughter contagious. You have the kindest heart and incredible expression. You are the most amazing little man ...I couldn't have dreamed you to be any more perfect. You have a little "diva" deep down (but dont we all??) and you are learning about sin as we have introduced an "attention stealer" known as Mr. P. You have done well with the transition to BIG Brother and are taking on your "bossy' roles without hesitation. The moments when you reach to hold Perrys hand, help wipe his mouth, or tell him you Love him illuminate my soul. The moments when you smack him, "accidentally" knock him down, or take a toy remind me that we all fall short of his glory. You are an absolute gift ...reassurance that our GOD is unbelievably good. My prayer for you is that you continue to be obedient, loving, happy, and innocent. I pray for your relationship with Perry and that it will continue to flourish and be the most important bond you will ever know. I pray that your heart will always be capable of love and forgiveness, for compassion and humility, that you will try to see the good in others, and have a steadfast love for our Savior. Lastly... I pray that you will feel the amount of love that is surrounding you and know that you are IMPORTANT and mean the absolute world to many.

We are keeping Perry!

2011-12-13T20:50:00.000-08:00

Wes and I have managed to "shock the Confederate" (one of my favorite lines out of my ALL TIME FAV movie Gone with the Wind) yet again!!! We are more than excited to be welcoming BABY number 3 in JULY! Some of the kind comments we have received include: "What are you thinking", "You do realize you have a NOT quite 3 year old and 1 year old!", "You have lost your MIND", "you are GLUTTON for punishment, "You do you know what causes that ...right?", and my personal favorite "I though we decided we would wait another year" -from someone other than my HUBBY!
Our reactions haven't been rainbows and butterflies but nonetheless we are over the moon. I wasn't able to fully embrace my pregnancy with Perry because of the difficult delivery and NICU time we experienced with York. Although I was humbled by our God's grace and goodness once again... I couldn't shake the uneasy feelings in the back of my mind. I went to every doctors visit with anxiety and worry that we would be in labor at any moment. I clung to prayers and asked my Savior to not walk with me into each visit but to carry me! If you have never delivered a child prematurely or not been able to take him home from the hospital with you ... you will not understand these feelings. Feelings of failure, of utter defeat, and unexplainable heartache. I didnt' want to fail again... I didn't want to put my baby into the NICU fighting for his precious life.... I couldn't relax, I couldn't breathe and enjoy every blessed day that was given to us until I watched week 34 pass then 35 and 36... I finally was able to let a huge sigh of relief and embrace the last weeks of God preparing our sweet P for this life. And also appreciate his humor since Mr. P arrived after my due date had come and gone... This time I feel more at peace knowing that I am not in charge and have been reminded so many times. I write this post with overflowing heart, huge smile, and complete confidence that this child will be born at God's perfect time -not mine.
We will choose to do the weekly synthetic progesterone shots that we did with Perry. Starting at 15 weeks and continuing until 37. For those of you who didn't follow our blog back then (I say that as if it was SO long ago... HA!) I take the shots to help prevent preterm labor... which worked amazingly well with sweet P! We are headed back to the doc on the 28th and I'll have more information then.
As far as the brothers... York is totally into the pregnancy and asks for me to open REAL WIDE. . . so he can "talk" to the baby!! He thinks she can hear him! I say SHE because York is convinced it is a "girl baby". Several weeks ago I began asking him, "York are we having a girl baby or boy baby?" and EVERY time without hesitation he replys "girl baby!". I am NOT sold on his so scientific method but for now it is fun to ask! He also asked if we were going to give Perry away since we are having a "new" baby. I explained NO we would keep him.... Now when telling others that we are having another baby he adds BUT WE ARE KEEPING PERRY! Glad he is clearing that up!! CRAZY KID! He also has suggestions for names.... Quesadilla for girl and Tow Truck for boy. Those are debatable. Perry is totally unconcerned with the growing little one in my belly and contines to "eat up" his time as my precious little baby! He is such a sweet heart and loves to cuddle (something York did NOT do) and I soak up my little lap baby! I can't give him enough kisses or squeezes ... he truly makes my heart smile. I'm a bit taken by my boys and proud to write it. Check back from more baby talk...

Is Santa watching Jesus or is Jesus watching Santa?

2011-12-08T14:12:00.000-08:00

We took the boys to see Santa today! They both did wonderfully and when asked what he wanted for Christmas York replied, "I don't know". (After practicing 100 times in the car on the way there) So Santa told him that he could walk over to the table and write a list and bring it back to him later. York contemplated this for a few seconds and said, "No, that's fine... I would like a tractor, boat, truck, and cables." I guess the idea of having to write a note and come back was too much trouble! ha! We headed over to the trains, cars, and other games the Bass Pro Shops had to offer. After approximately 2 1/2 hours, full bellies, excited babies, and a visit with jolly ole St. Nick our work was done! York has gotten really excited about the thought of Santa driving his reindeer onto our roof and coming down the chimney. Although he worries about Santa getting burned by the "fire"... we continue to assure him that Santa will be just fine. We read the Christmas Story about once a day and dance around to different holiday songs. I love this time of year and hope my boys will inherit the same love of the holidays. York recently made a manger at school and has been quite interested in the Baby Jesus. Telling Perry to "Be quiet!! don't wake MY Baby Jesus" and things of this nature. We are trying to explain the Birth of our Savior and Santa... but he is so confused!! His big question is... if Santa is watching us to see if we are being good... Is Jesus watching him? Or is Santa watching Jesus? OH BOY! So we will continue to explain the excitement for the holidays with having a Birthday for sweet Baby Jesus and celebrating our love for family with gifts. Merry Christmas to everyone... baby post coming soon!

the more the merrier!

2011-12-07T08:24:00.000-08:00

Jabber Jaws - What's that horrible stink?

2011-12-06T18:53:00.000-08:00

While watching a cartoon York began talking about a character that was in danger... "Mom, I gotta save him. How do I get on TV?!"

I told Wes to make sure he brushed York's teeth, changed his diaper, and put long PJ's on him because it was cold outside (Wes does the boys nightly bedtime routines) ... Wes brought York over to kiss me goodnight as I finished up my helpful reminders (ha). York kisses me and says "Good night MISS BOSSY!" I couldn't help but laugh!

I have a TERRIBLE problem with calling York "heifer" sometimes ... jokingly OF COURSE! I didn't realize he even "heard" this until recently when he yelled to me "Thanks EVAN HEIFER HARLESS"

York has been very interested in distinguishing daytime from night. We explain when the sun is up we are too and when it gets dark we go to bed. While trying to get him to nap last week... York says "Mom, it's up time not night time... the sun is out!"

We decorated our massive Christmas tree last week ... York loved helping by placing his Spongebob ornament on the tree and taking it off again. He didn't really say a whole lot about the tree until a couple of days ago... He walked in the house and walked over to our tree, "Its Christmas time! and the Tree looks beautiful.. you did a great job!"

We were getting out of the bathtub when York notices "Your not a girl your a mommy! and P doesn't have a mommy"

"Mom, you don't have a Spongebob nose -You have a delicate girl nose" UMMM... how does he know the word delicate?

He took his shirt off last night and said, "I naked like DADDY and I LIKE IT!"

We ate breakfast with "skip" last Saturday and York's biscuit never came. After a moment of waiting to see if they "forgot" it ... Skip went to the front to ask what happened. York turns to me and says, "Skip gonna handle this!"

York and I were watching TV in my bed this weekend and he leans on me and states, "What is this horrible stink coming from my mouth? I need to brush my teeth!"

York made a manger at school today complete with Baby Jesus. While on the way home from school Perry began yelling and York sternly says, "P don't wake my baby Jesus up.. enough!"

While caring Baby Jesus into the house he was "accidentally flung" out of his manger... York sympathetically asks, "Did Baby Jesus get a boo boo?"

Our MONKEY is ONE!

2011-11-27T00:00:00.000-08:00

REWIND to last year as I watched the Iron Bowl from my trusty ole recliner... wincing in pain as contractions began. 40 weeks pregnant -I watched my due date come and go! I was eating all things spicy, jogging around the neighborhood, and lets not mention the acts of desperation I may have given into to have this BABY! Wes begged me to wait until the game was over before we went to the hospital... so I did. I was able to get a couple of hours of sleep that night and headed to the hospital the next day to find out I was 5 centimeters and ready to go... Perry made his debut a short 2 hours later. I remember telling my mother "that was SO easy I can totally understand why people have multiple pregnancies" (not quite my sentiments after giving birth to York)! He joined our family November 27, 2010 weighing a perfect 6 lbs 9 ounces. He brought new beginnings and changed our world in a way we couldn't imagine. He made me a boy expert, York a big brother, and Wes a nervous WRECK! hehe! He brought more happiness than I can ever record on paper. The best way to describe it... is to remember the way York looked at him in the early days after the hospital. It was a look of innocence, hope, trust and overflowing love. The way that Perry looks to his big brother now -a look of absolute adoration. I hope my boys will grow to be closer than I can ever imagine, to walk with our Lord and develop a bond that can not be destroyed, to love others the way they have been loved, and to teach their children the value of family. Perry lights up my every minute and illuminates others with his smile. He is kind, happy, and most importantly a perfect fit to our puzzle. Perry Daniel Harless is our little monkey that we celebrate today and thank God for. Thank you Lord for allowing me experience this kind of joy. Thank you for choosing me to be Perry's mother and equip me with the right words, thoughts, and actions to raise him in a way suitable for your kingdom. Happy Birthday to a beautiful boy... MY baby!

"Perry we love you with all of our hearts" -mommy

2011-11-15T08:51:00.000-08:00

HARLESS Halloween extravaganza!

2011-11-06T19:06:00.000-08:00

I'm in a bloggers funk... SORRY! I was able to upload some pix from the last couple of weeks. school days, cousin love, and Halloween! enjoy (I have some better pix that I'm trying to upload of our 1st Annual Halloween party that include a not so successful pumpkin chunkin, cutie pa-tutie babies, and a whole lota fun!)

York getting ready for school!

Addy, Lily, and Perry hanging out

loving this weather!

sweet little Witch Addy!

Pirate York and Elmo

Hubs and Parrot Perry

BIG BOY

2011-10-18T21:13:00.000-07:00

This is a picture I took this morning after we bought Perry his first pair of crocs. I didn't think much about it (other than it being super cute) and uploaded it to facebook (naturally). My facebook family brought to my attention that is is getting so BIG. After looking at the picture for a second time I noticed that he is beginning to grow out of that baby stage and into a little man. Oh how my heart aches... not for middle of the night feedings, spit up, or colic-like screaming!! But for just a little more time...time to savor that newborn smell, those tiny coo's, great big yawns, and gummy smiles. It seems that each stage comes and goes before you can really enjoy it... That there isn't enough time in the day to hold on to those fleeting moments. I will blink and the current babble talk, wobbly walking, and speed crawling will quickly turn into talking, walking, independent toddler! Just like that and I will long to have him that size again. I have to remind myself that the next stage is just as exciting and important in their development and our relationship. ((And who are we kidding... I don't know of anyone that would want a "baby" to stay 10 months old forever!)) In the meantime, as I watch my boys grow I will make sure to give too many kisses, snuggle a little longer, and continue to update my blog (although it can be a pain) because I want to remember exactly the way I feel at this moment. FULL... my HEART is FULL!

when I wake up, you are still with me...

2011-10-18T20:45:00.000-07:00

"You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous - how well I know it. You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed. How precious are your thoughts about me, O God. They cannot be numbered! I can't even count them; they outnumber the grains of sand! And when I wake up, you are still with me!"

Psalm 139: 13-18

2011-10-17T13:56:00.000-07:00

WAR EAGLE... first of all! Wes and I had the best day (just the 2 of us) at the game... We tailgated like old times and enjoy adult conversation and visits from old friends. The weather during the day was warm but cooled off perfectly for kickoff. Missed our boys but was glad to get a little break with the hubs. ((Thank you Henderson's for supporting my Amsterdam addiction.)) On Sunday we traveled to Montgomery for a sweet friends baby shower I helped host. So I dropped the boys (all 3) at Pop Pop's and headed over to the shower. Below are some pix of their time with Pop pop (my dad).

Pop Pop and Perry worn OUT

York, Pop Pop, and Bailey on the tractor

off the chain...

2011-10-01T13:23:00.000-07:00

Perry D is about to take off... he has been cruising the furniture for several weeks but recently began letting go! He stands by himself and has taken a step or two. He is still very wobbly but it is just a matter of time and this household will be "of the chain" as York would say. (thanks to our outside influences) I am excited for sweet Perry because he is so proud of himself!! He is also a little daredevil and will attempt stairs, uses York's back or hair as stability to stand or pull up, and loves bathtub standing (YIKES). It is getting a bit dangerous in the Harless Hood ... York will jump on your back or throw a ball when your not looking, "help" his brother walk on the hardwoods (SCARY), picks his brother up when he is "in the way", and racing Perry at high speeds in his walker through the Harless Speedway. It is definitely a boy zone and I'm loving it! York has recently taken an interest in dressing himself. He wants to wear pants with pockets because he can then carry his "monies". He is very generous with his monies.. I asked him the other day to pay for our lunch and he said "sure mom" and got his monies out. I think he was a couple bucks short... but it's the thought that counts! I want my boys to always give and never be selfish. I want others to say 'those Harless boys will give the shirt off their back' if you asked. So we are starting early with giving him offering for church or giving toys away that we aren't using. I hope theirs hearts will be so big that it feeds their soul to help others. That is very important to me and I will do my best to instill those values and lessons whenever possible. These boys keep me on my toes but also melt my heart. What an amazing gift to be a mom. What an amazing God to choose these 2 sweet boys for Wesley and I. I am crazy in love!

Jabber Jaws UPDATE:

My sister and Brad joined us at the lake a couple of weekends ago and we were walking out to meet them and York screams: "her brought a him!!"

On the way home from dinner the other night York yelled out his window "War Eagle, God!"

We were laughing and York interjects: "That is just hilarious"

York loves to roll his window down on the way home and the other night I noticed him pretending to cast a fishing pole then reel it up. I asked him what he was doing and he replied: "God I reel you in" I hope one day he decides to "catch" God and puts him in his heart forever!

He was running around the house yelling "I'm stupor York"

We were watching television and York grabs my hand and says, "Mickey Mouse is a cool dude like me!"

"I wanna be a garbage man mommy"

I turned the cartoon on that he likes and he said, "That's what I'm talking about!"

I finished dressing him and was combing his hair and he looked into the mirror and stated, "I be looking too good!"

"Look, mom, It's the home de-to" as we passed the Home Depot

We went to Children's Hospital to check out York's cough (it is Croup by the way) and a male doctor can into the room and York says, "I need lady doctor... you not doctor!"

Happy 10 months sweet PERRY!

2011-09-27T14:17:00.000-07:00

Perry Daniel Harless is 10 months old!!! I can not believe it.. he is such a big boy and steals my heart with every look! He has absolutely NO interest in pacifiers... York also gave his up around this age. No complaints here! He loves finger foods and his bottle. He gets very excited when you show him the bottle. We will begin introducing a sippy cup in the next couple of weeks. He already drinks out of my straw at dinner... little heifer! He is in a "big boy" car seat and is enjoying seating more upright! He is a sweet heart with an infectious smile... we adore you P! You make each and every day that much better! xoxo-mom

2011-09-27T13:57:00.000-07:00

York is back in Mother's Day Out and making new friends and this mom is enjoying time alone with sweet Perry. York had a couple of rocky mornings walking into MDO but he is now a pro and it warms my heart to see him run into class so excited. And thrills me more to watch him race to the door when I come to pick him up... What wonderful moments! We have been cheering on our tigers, playing with friends, and enjoying some cool breezes. Below are some pix from the last couple of weeks.

MR. YORK - first day of school!!

York with his puppy Chip!

Walking out to the car... he feel asleep 45 seconds later!

York, Hollee, sissy, Brad, and P enjoying the Auburn vs Miss State game!
Thanks for watching our rugrats!!!

Hollee and York hanging before lunch

love these kids

T and York enjoying some park time on a beautiful Saturday!

BFF's

Little Brother's taking a break...

War Eagle from our backyard...

A butterfly in the backyard... so pretty!

3 of our 4 boys taking a "cart" ride!

Jabber Jaws -Just say thank you!

2011-09-08T08:48:00.000-07:00

We were welcomed into the hair salon by a sweet young girl and York proclaims, "I have a mullep (mullet).. seeeee it!" as he points to the back of his head.

We forgot York's Auburn hat at home and he said, "Awe Snap!"

We were in the car headed to the grocery store and York was quietly playing with his trucks and I hear him whisper, "I love you John Deer Truck".

Same car ride = York tells me, "Mom 2 hands! Put da phone in your purse!" I guess he is keeping me safe!

Wes can be a bit high strung at times... and he came home the other night complaining about something and York said, "Dad just relax -be lax!"

York has recently begun turning on my car when I'm putting Perry in his seat. The first time he did this I got upset and told him how dangerous this was and he should never do that unless he asks me and I help him... he looks over and sweetly says, "Just say thank you mommy!"

I asked Perry to tell York how good he was being and York quickly looked up and said, "P doesn't talk, mom!"

Perry was crawling away from York's wrath when I hear York call out, "Come here rascal!"

We were behind a very slow car and York yells, "Move ON dude!" Hopefully he doesn't inherit my road rage... eek!

Harless Family Photo Shoot...

2011-09-02T12:14:00.000-07:00

Fresh Grace Photography captured some amazing moments and I am forever grateful to LDW. I can not say enough about her talent and style. If you are in the market for family photos please give her a call... www.freshgracephotography.blogspot.com ! Perry is wearing his Christening gown that my mother made and York wore as well! Enjoy...

No we are NOT the Duggars or Sister wives...

2011-09-01T13:06:00.000-07:00

9 kids + 3 moms + ZOO=

We braved the Zoo this morning with 9 kids! We practically had the entire park to ourselves. It was wonderful... the kids could run around and enjoy the beautiful animals and slight breeze. The zoo also has a splash pad that is a real crowd pleaser. The kids loved cooling off after checking out their favorite animals. York loved the alligators and elephant! Kate S. was our zoo tour guide and did a great job explaining what was coming up next... We love our day with the Starr sisters and their little ones especially the newest addition MM!! We did however look like the Duggars as we took a nice lunch break at Chappy's ... in fact I think I overheard a waitress say "oh lowd" when we darkened the doors!! Here are some pix of the day!

checking out the bird exhibit!

Kate, York, Blake, and Turner looking for alligators!

What are these 3 up to?? T R O U B L E

the ELEPHANT

exploring

Running FREE

I love CARNIES!

2011-09-01T12:38:00.000-07:00

We have had a busy week. Monday began with a great trip to the fair! I absolutely love the fair ... Wes NOT so much. He says the fair is lame, dirty, and expensive. I like to describe the fair as a delicious night of F U N! I am absolutely obsessed with fairs and have been since I was a little girl. Who doesn't love funnel cakes, caramel apples, balloon/dart games, fish bowl games, mazes, monkeys riding dogs (that's for you Kelly), clowns, Ferris wheels, and last but not least the CARNIES! I love fair workers ... they are so interesting. Traveling the country in their motor homes to entertain our children. I think I missed my calling! (hehe.. Wes will cringe when he reads that!) I will say I think Perry had more teeth than half of the carnies at Monday nights festivities. Nonetheless we had a fantastic time. York was tall enough to ride several rides and I of course over indulged in fair food and went home with a tummy ache and big smile! So long fair carnies... until next year.

SpongeBob, Patrick, and York!

York in the race car...

Turner the cowboy!

Feeding the animals

crazy P

laid back

Piggy racing at the fair

watching a bear tear down a picnic table

Daddy trying to win a stuffed animal! Although Wesley didn't win (because he said the game was fixed!) I think deep down he still had a good time! Thanks Hubs for indulging us .. again!

Perry -9 Months

2011-08-30T11:41:00.000-07:00

Happy 9 Months Mr. Perry!!

19 lbs and 28 1/2 inches tall!

That is 20-25 percentile for weight and 75 percentile for height!

Yay... a growth spurt! Doc M was very pleased with P's progress (i.e crawling, standing, walking assisted, saying momma/dadda, picking up toys, fingering foods, table food interest, etc) He is a little monkey and wants to do everything York is doing... his brother makes him laugh and sometimes cry. Mostly laugh... they are quite the pair! Perry is happy most of the time and will win anyone over with just one look into those baby blues! He is my handsome little one and holds another part of my heart... a heart that has grown ever so large in the last nine months.

Perry 9 month visit

Perry at 6 month visit

Look how much he has grown!! Is it just me or is he a mini-Wes?? He is also a little more tan... all those outdoor play dates and beach/ lake days. I am so proud of this little guy and happy for a healthy report! I can not believe that 9 months have flown by so quickly... I say that all of the time but with the 2nd child it is more true than ever! Happy Happy Sweet Perry Baby! We love you so much...

I draw heart for you momma!

2011-08-26T13:49:00.000-07:00

Mr. York has be a chatty Cathy lately...wonder where he gets that? Here are a few conversations from last week....

We were in the Jim n Nicks drive through waiting on our turn at the window when York looks over at Perry and says, "That's foods house P!"

We were laying in bed and York blurts out, "I can't believe this weather, mom!"

Perry was in his car seat singing "Dadadadadada" when York interrupts "He is at WORK P!"

I told York ... "You are such a pretty baby!" he quickly interjects "I not a pretty baby.. I YORK!"

York loves to draw at the kitchen table and I always come over to admire his work.. as I stood over him he looks up with those beautiful eyes and says, "I draw heart for you momma"

"What's wrong with me momma... I got gas in my tummy?"

I told York that he must eat so he would have "gas in his tank" and looked at me very serious and said "gas is in my truck in gomery mom"

York and Perry were playing on the floor when Perry handed over a car and York sweetly put his hand on Perry's head and said, "Thank you P I needed that!"

Perry loves to repeat "Da Da Da Da" and York finally looked over and said "P I NOT your daddy .. I York!"

I told York that instead of paper that we could write on this large box we got in the mail... he looked up and said, "Mom that's a great idea!"

He didn't think I was watching him as he played in the living room... He couldn't find a toy he was looking for and put his hands on his head and declared, "What the heck!"

His new thing : when asked to pick up toys, eat his food, put on shoes, etc

He repeats: "Ok OK OK OK OK"

York was sitting beside Perry at dinner and looked over and said, "Look at that mess you made P.... Oh that's just horrible"

When York comes out of time out I explain why he was there and why we shouldn't do that particular action again and I complete the lesson with "you understand?" and now he tells P what not to do and quickly asks, "you understand P?

We were walking to get the mail and York says, "I wanna go to camp it'd be great!"

We were walking into a restaurant and I asked York "who are those people?" and he replies, "Those my kids momma!"

"Mom if I eat my food, I get strong, and get muscles" yes York that is right! and he say "mom only boys have muscles ok!"

On the way to his haircut he out of the blue says, "Mom I not a boy, I'm a working man!"

York and I were having a conversation and he says, "Mom you say yes sir to me!" so I said "Yes sir York!" and he then congratulates me with "that a boy, mom!"

He has the manner part down but the gender is another story... hehe

I just love our special interactions each day... trying to write the highlights down to remember when he is older! God you are so good...

She has done it again...

2011-08-24T19:44:00.000-07:00

http://www.freshgracephotography.blogspot.com/ was able to capture such sweet moments in an afternoon of complete and utter chaos! York was a total pill and Perry hates the HEAT... but she is so patient and kind and worked her magic yet again. She managed to get this precious time in our lives on film... I will always remember how difficult this photo session was but how beautifully the pictures came out. It is so similar to how my days go -difficult at times:

*bathing one while the other is coloring our walls, taking off his diaper, or jumping from the table to the couch

*lugging them to the grocery store while manipulating one around my waist to unbuckle the other from his seat, preventing one from running in the street while holding another, pushing a buggy, finding the keys, all while the phone is ringing

*spooning baby food into ones mouth while the other is smashing crackers into his plate and generously "salting" the area around him

*changing ones diaper while the other has crawled into the another room and has managed to fall and bump his head or smash his fingers

*going to lunch trying to buckle one into a highchair while the other is visiting with an elderly couple 10 tables away

*OR trying to lay one down for a nap and the other comes in screaming that he has POOPED his pants! baby wakes up...

A W E S O M E

Those precious squiggly lines my toddler calls art, those sweet fat fingers squishing his food -learning about texture, taste, and the word NO!, kissing boo boos, those fat thighs dangling out of the side of that highchair, my chatty little man talking to strangers as friends -pure innocence, and watching a sleeping baby are all moments that I will never get back and will always Cherish. My hard days are not hard at all only the reality of my life, the amazing gift of taking care of 2 children day in and day out. What a job... spending priceless time with precious boys. I am the luckiest girl in the world!

WE ARE AT THE BEACH!!!

2011-08-17T13:31:00.000-07:00

We are having a blast! This is Perry today at the Red Bar for lunch. We had a great time and Mr. P loves his new view at the dinner table from a high chair!! He has 8 teeth now and is climbing and standing on EVERYTHING. He crawls (army style) everywhere but would prefer to walk.... he lets go often and face plants. I am taking the "he will learn" approach. The boys and I are in Santa Rosa visiting my mom and the weather has been amazing. Wesley will be joining us this weekend... our last trip before York goes back to MDO. Mom and York at lunch...
York's face says it ALL!

Summer Par-tay!

2011-08-09T12:29:00.000-07:00

It has been ENTIRELY to hot to:

go to the park

play outside

sidewalk chalk

ride cars in driveway

play ball

nature walks

go to the pool w/ both boys

or do anything outside lately!!

So I decided to rent a slide and invite some of York's friends to enjoy the wild and wet fun. My BF "K" so graciously offered her jump house to add another cool toy for the kiddo's! We had a blast and the little babies were able to enjoy the air conditioner with sweet Britney. We had a total of 11 friends and their mommies... I hope they enjoed it as much as my clan did.

Below are some pix from that day.

We completed the afternoon with pizza and fruit! What a special day and a great way to get our boys and gal (poor Kate bug -only girl) to N A P! Hope to do another outdoor get together before this beautiful weather fades...

Change UP

2011-08-09T12:05:00.000-07:00

Here are some pix of my "keeping room" off of the kitchen and the living room... I have been adding different elements since we moved in and am finally pleased with the results. Here's a look:

Jabber Jaws weekly update....

2011-07-31T14:03:00.000-07:00

Wes likes to say "They are coming in HOT!" when he sees a boat coming to the docks fast. Mr. York has come up with his own spin on this saying. We were watching the boats come in and York says: "momma they coming in hotter!"

We were laying in the bed and York was telling me about his "head ford" - it took me about 10 minutes to realize he was referring to his forehead.

York ran ahead of Wes and I and said "York slow down..." he replies "I not leave you mom... I keep you safe!"

I turned cartoons on and York yelled "I not wike dis... Not a good one!"

As York was eating his dinner he spilled a large bit on his shorts and looks up and says "dat happens"

On one of Yorks "shows" the dog was being ugly and York said "mom he makes my heart hurt... I sad". We discussed why that dog was being mean and he made me kiss his heart... sweet moment.

and the best:

We were walking around the block and he asked "Where is God?" as he looks up at the sky and before I could answer he says "He walking right here beside us momma... thank you God everyday"

Happy 8 Months!

2011-07-27T08:22:00.000-07:00

2 weeks 7 1/2 months

This sweet baby has brought so much joy and CRAZINESS to our family! He is 8 months old today and is growing like a weed! He has 4 teeth... 2 top/2 bottom. He is eating baby food and begin to enjoy yogurt melts and puffs! He army crawls all over the house and tries to do everything York does. He absolutely loves his brother and it melts my heart. York gets irritated with him regularly and says "No P! dat mine" , "I told you NOOOOOOOO!", or my personal favorite "I put you in time out p dawg!!" But underneath that hard exterior is a great big brother who gives lots of kisses and drags him to "safety" alot of times. Perry laughes at his brother most of the time and just stares at him and claps! I love their relationship already! These boys are GREAT!

Frogs in the road...

2011-07-14T14:33:00.000-07:00

"Mom will you call me SWEETIE!"

That was the conversation York and I just had! Of course I'll call you sweetie... where does he get this stuff?

York can you come pick up you cars out of the kitchen... "no mommy, I too old!"

quite waphing mommy! (laughing)

Recently Wes told me I was "killin him"! Not literally but figuratively... so later that night York told Wes ... "Daddy, you killin me!"

I was getting onto York for pulling a toy out that we just put back... He looked at me so calmly and said "mommy... puweesse be sweet!"

As we laid down in the bed to take a nap... York said "come on Mom get on my boat and go to Chimney Rock!"

I told York to come change his diaper because I smelled POOP! He replied "no momma its not hurting my body!"

York is quite the songwriter... He sang a song on the way home from target that went a little like this: "I cry on the way home, I CRY, see you after while, I so sad, I go cry in the road, frogs in the road, I JUST CRY, airplane!" ((I'm working on getting the audio of his little dity uploaded... wait! you thought I didn't catch that GREAT moment on my phone... I sure did!)

While changing York's diaper he asks (EVERY TIME) "is it big... is it green?"

YUCK!

and the BEST ONE ALL WEEK

We were getting on the elevator and I said push B for basement! and began saying "B is for Boy, B is for baseball, B is for bat..." York quickly said "B is for BUTT!!!"

YIKES!

Beach Boys!

2011-07-12T12:15:00.000-07:00

I'll miss that ole GRUMP!

2011-07-05T13:18:00.000-07:00

With broken heart I must share news about Mr. Shug with you all... As most of you know Shuggy has been my baby for over 6 years. He is a "grouchy" old soul but has always been by my side since I rescued him after Hurricane Katrina. He joined me as I finished college (proudly wearing his orange and blue), accepted an engagement and moved to Birmingham to share his home and bed, even stuck in there when Mr. York came and demoted him from #1, then again when Perry D joined our clan. He has been a loyal pup but sadly took a back seat when the babies arrived. Instead of helping make this an EASY transition he continued in his "crotchety" old ways and would not play with the boys or appease their curiosity in any way. I thought it would get better and the boys would "grow" on him. I was WRONG... He is absolutely terrified of York (for good reason: ear pulls, eye gauging, tail yanking, suffocating hugs) and will not let him get 10 feet from him. So he would hide under our bed to avoid the Harless Boys. It wasn't a good life. And I overlooked it daily because I was being selfish... I couldn't entertain the idea of giving my first BABY away. Finally I made the decision any good mom would... I decided to give my sweet Shug the life he deserves. To live a life without York's torture and Perry's drool, a life of leisure and happiness. So I mentioned to my cousin (who also has a Cavalier) that I might be interested in finding Shuggers a better life/home. She immediately said that her in laws were in the market for a grown dog that they didn't have to potty train. They had a dog pass recently and were lost without a K-9 in their life. PERFECT!!! I wanted to find him a home were I could "check in" and maybe visit every once and a while. Well they came to get him on Father's Day and I have been a mess ever since. I know it is for the best but it is KILLING me... especially when York says "Mom where Shug? I cant find hims!" (He has said this twice in 2 weeks) So York and Wes have done lots better than I. I told York he is at Dog camp where he can meet other dogs and play! York is totally fine with this explanation. I have heard from Shug's new family and he is in PARADISE... he is adjusting well and sleeps in their bed at night, lounges on their couch during the day, and takes kayak rides in the morning. He's probably thinking.. "Finally... the GOOD LIFE!" and I sure hope so...you deserve it buddy! I will miss that old grump! But will always remember the wonderful times you gave me.... Love you ALWAYS Shugster!

He said WHAT?

2011-07-05T12:29:00.000-07:00

Jabber Jaw NEWS:

As we are watching the fireworks ... there was some lull time and York says: "I call you fireweerks! Where are you?"

Wes says: "There coming buddy... just a minute"

York: "They busy daddy... their making my hotdog"

"Go Fireweerks... high in de kii!"

"Wow... dats a gud one"

Wes was telling me about this chair he built and York interjects: "You NO build it DADDY!"

I walked out of the room ready for dinner and Yorkster says: "mom you wook cute!"

We get down to the pool and he meets 3 very pretty girls (ages: 23-27)

We come back to the pool later in the day and he says: "Where my girlfriends"

"I pooted mom... Yea I did!"

York asked Wes in the car last night... "Where you beers daddy?"

"Where'd them go?"

(He was refering to his BEARD! hehe)

Wes said "I shaved it"

York says after a silent moment: "like mommy do her pits!"

"Mom, my truck in Gomery and it has tools in it!"

I say: "it does! wow .. what else is in your truck?"

York: "A cow"

me: "Really... anything else?"

York: "Yes mom... a shark too!"

me: "What color is your truck?"

York: "Red and Green mom!"

"Mom look at the ponteen boats!"

"they are awesome!"

Perry D!

2011-07-05T12:12:00.000-07:00

Perry is growing like a WEED! He is around 18 pounds at 7 months and is eating me out of house and home! He has 2 bottom teeth and 1 top tooth is about to break through ... he wants to eat anything York has. York has obliged him on many occasions. Recently York gave him a mandarin orange, capri sun, home aid ice cream and a cheese ball. (not all at one time of course) He likes to hand him things in the car when I'm not looking... I have been able to intervene in the nick of time on each except the capri sun. I heard a weird sucking noise on the way home from the lake and realized that was Perry sucking the bottom out of York's old capri sun - I asked York how he got it and York replied (very matter of factly) "I did it mom... he needs it!". Very good son - I guess Perry will be eating Prime Rib before his first birthday. I would have DIED if someone has given York these items so early but I just laugh this time around. York likes to "sing" to him when he gets fussy and plays the perfect brotherly role. Other times he asks if we can leave him places and says he makes him tired!! Him tired?? Perry is happy unless hungry and then makes it very clear he will not be missing meals any time soon.

He has a hilarious hair do and I LOVE it... although most family/ friends tell me to cut it and it looks ridiculous. It reminds me of a "fo-hawk" (from mohawk) or "the trump" a weird comb over. Nonetheless it is unique to P and I'm loving that crazy patch of wild hair as much as that incredibly cute dimple or those dreamy set of blue eyes. He is such a wonderful addition/completion to our family and I count my lucky stars nightly...

I LOVE MY BOYS!

-one proud MOMMA

Many reasons to Celebrate!

2011-06-21T18:13:00.000-07:00

This past Sunday, we brought Perry Daniel Harless before God, family, friends, and our church family to ask for their help and partnership in raising him in the truth of our Lord's instruction and discipline, to one day trust Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior, and provide a Christian home with abundant love. 6:4 Listen, Israel: The Lord is our God, the Lord is one! 5 You must love the Lord your God with your whole mind, your whole being, and all your strength. 6 These words I am commanding you today must be kept in mind, 7 and you must teach them to your children and speak of them as you sit in your house, as you walk along the road, as you lie down, and as you get up -Deuteronomy 6 4-7 During the ceremony York decided to "entertain" our congregation!! As our preacher discussed the sinful nature present in our children he glanced at York while he struggled to get away from my 'death grip' while saying/announcing "Mom you hurtin me!! Let GO-W Let GO-W!!" As I whisper into his ear that the 'spanking spoon' is about to make a church debut!!

We will proudly claim MOST DIFFICULT BABY DEDICATION of 2011 -at least we are keeping it REAL!

We also celebrated Father's Day with some deserving gentlemen...
(this is my father and sissy)Wesley and I also celebrated a 5 year anniversary on Friday night 6-17-2011! My sister came to watch the boys as we attended Wedding Festivities for my cousin Danny! She is a lifesaver... Love you sis

Happy Birthday sweet love... York and I made fun-fetti cupcakes!

All of my Boys

That was our crazy weekend... Add a rehearsal dinner, wedding, reception, family karaoke, and lunch after church at our home to the mix not to mention the CLEANING & LAUNDRY... whew... I'm tired! More to come later...

Trying to find my lost shaker of salt!

2011-06-13T20:06:00.000-07:00

in LAS VEGAS!!!!!

Happy Birthday to my amazing husband WESLEY!

This is a sneak peak of his birthday bash... Wes is a HUGE Jimmy Buffett fan ("parrot head") so I decided to get him tickets to an upcoming show... Selfishly I chose the LAS VEGAS concert to CELEBRATE turning 3-0!! We also have our 5 year anniversary this Friday so that's why I decided to do a destination birthday/anniversary trip!
Let the count down to TRIP TIME begin! Happy Birthday sweet Husband! More to come with TONS of pictures of the weeks festivities!

Jabber Jaws Update

2011-06-02T07:42:00.000-07:00

This week in Jabber Jaw news:::

York has been sick this past week and hasn't wanted to eat much ... in an effort to get ANYTHING in that sweet tummy I chose to serve him Teddy Grahams for breakfast Saturday. His response: "Mom dis poison! I not eat"

We were taking a stroller ride in the neighborhood a couple of nights ago and we see a tractor that was preparing the lot for foundation and York says: "I cant beev-it! a tra-tor! I jus cant beev-it"

translation: I can't believe it .. a tractor!

We were at York's great grandparents home yesterday and they asked him what he had been doing all day and he says: "I been cookin all morning!"

We went to the lake for Memorial Day and York got to "drive" the boat.. when he came back to the dock he yelled "I Back!" then added "I drive boat in yake... I did!"

York looked in Perry's diaper like I do when I check to see if he has gone #2... York looks up and says: "Mom P poopy... yuk yik di-rhe"

I ran in the house from running errands and rushed to the bathroom... York followed me to the toilet and told me: "Great job.. you mades it!"

Perry continued to spit his paci out (a game!) and York would put it back in each time... Finally York had enough and said: "No more P... I tired!"

The boys and I were going to the park and as I turned the car off and began to get both boys out York grabbed my arm and said: "P is fine... let go...mon!" wanting me to leave Perry in the car... poor sweet P!

York says each time he shares a toy of his with Perry: "Dats sweet!"

When I drive York demands: "Two hands mommy!"

While watching a commercial on television an add for a four wheeler for kids comes on and York proclaims: "Dad get that for me! I lovs it!"

and his favorite show: Spun bob Scare pants

AKA Spongebob Squarepants!

There is a character on the show named Squidward and he isn't very nice... York will say: "mom swidwar is show mean mommy he needs fankin!"

As we walked into school a little boy was getting in trouble and York yelled: "He needs the fankin foon!!" Yes.. we have a spanking spoon that is used when needed.. most of the time (TIME OUT) works but occasionally Mr. Sad Spoon makes and appearance.

Best part of my week York leans over and says: "Mom.. you my best frand"

Lastley... Every night when he is winding down he throws an arm over my shoulders and says so sweetly: "Mom wuv you!"

Headed South!

2011-05-13T13:17:00.000-07:00

We just got back from the beach and it was AMAZING! I do realize that I have NO pictures of sweet Perry... because he didn't make it outside much! Perry hates HOT so being on the beach at 90 degrees was not his idea of fun. He hung out in the AC while York got all the action. I do have a great video of Perry and Wes at the beach but am unable to upload it... I'm working on it!

Livin' in a Boyz world...

2011-05-13T12:55:00.000-07:00

What we have been doing some lounging- Snuggling...

playing-

crying-

laughing-

sunning-

add a little danger-

some pushing and pulling-

hanging around-

and ALOT of lazy afternoons-

The boys and I are enjoying the beginning of summer and are looking forward to some lake, beach, and pool time! York will be out of school for the summer on Friday so Momma better start filling up her social calendar to keep these boys busy! Perry is getting so big and is approaching the half year mark quickly! He is such a sweet baby and ADORES his brother.. what an amazing bond they have already. God is GREAT!

21,900 days together...

2011-05-13T12:44:00.000-07:00

OR 60 YEARS is cause for Celebration!

Wesley's grandparents have been married for 60 years! Below are some pictures from the party we had to celebrate such an incredible milestone.

Happy Anniversary MJ and Paw! We love you both!

Great Email!

2011-04-27T15:01:00.000-07:00

My grandmother sent me this email and I had to share... It is LONG but worth the read! Thanks Goggie!

The yellow shirt had long sleeves, four extra-large pockets trimmed in
black thread and snaps up the front. It was faded from years of wear,
but still in decent shape. I found it in 1963 when I was home from college
on Christmas break, rummaging through bags of clothes Mom intended to
give away..
'You're not taking that old thing, are you?' Mom said when she saw me
packing the yellow shirt. 'I wore that when I was pregnant with your
brother in 1954!'
'It's just the thing to wear over my clothes during art class, Mom.
Thanks!' I slipped it into my suitcase before she could object. The yellow
shirt be came a part of my college wardrobe. I loved it.

After graduation, I wore the shirt the day I moved into my new
apartment and on Saturday mornings when I cleaned.
The next year, I married. When I became pregnant, I wore the yellow
shirt during big-belly days. I missed Mom and the rest of my family,
since we were in Colorado and they were in Illinois .. But, that shirt
helped. I smiled, remembering that Mother had worn it when she was pregnant,
25 years earlier..

That Christmas, mindful of the warm feelings the shirt had given me, I
patched one elbow, wrapped it in holiday paper and sent it to Mom. When
Mom wrote to thank me for her 'real' gifts, she said the yellow shirt was
lovely. She never mentioned it again..

The next year, my husband, daughter and I stopped at Mom and Dad's to
pick up some furniture. Days later, when we uncrated the kitchen table, I
noticed something yellow taped to its bottom. The shirt!

And so the pattern was set.

On our next visit home, I secretly placed the shirt under Mom and Dad's
mattress I don't know how long it took for her to find it, but almost

two years passed before I discovered it under the base of our living-room
floor lamp. The yellow shirt was just what I needed now while
refinishing furniture. The walnut stains added character.

In 1975 my husband and I divorced. With my three children, I prepared
to move back to Illinois ... As I packed, a deep depression overtook
me. I wondered if I could make it on my own. I wondered if I would find
a job. I paged through the Bible, looking for comfort. In Ephesians,
I read, 'So use every piece of God's armor to resist the enemy whenever
he attacks, and when it is all over, you will be standing up.'

I tried to picture myself wearing God's armor, but all I saw was the
stained yellow shirt.. Slowly, it dawned on me.. Wasn't my mother's love a
piece of God's armor? My courage was renewed.

Unpacking in our new home, I knew I had to get the shirt back to Mother.
The next time I visited her, I tucked it in her bottom dresser drawer

Meanwhile, I found a good job at a radio station. A year later I

discovered the yellow shirt hidden in a rag bag in my cleaning closet.

Something new had been added. Embroidered in bright green across the
breast pocket were the words 'I BELONG TO PAT.'

Not to be outdone, I got out my own embroidery materials and added an
apostrophe and seven more letters.

Now the shirt proudly proclaimed, 'I BELONG TO PAT'S MOTHER.' But I
didn't stop there. I zig-zagged all the frayed seams, then had a friend
mail the shirt in a fancy box to Mom from Arlington , VA. We enclosed an
official looking letter from 'The Institute for the Destitute,'
announcing that she was the recipient of an award for good deeds..

I would have given anything to see Mom's face when she opened the box.
But, of course, she never mentioned it..

Two years later, in 1978, I remarried. The day of our wedding, Harold and I put our car in a friend's garage to avoid practical jokers. After
the wedding, while my husband drove us to our honeymoon suite, I reached
for a pillow in the car to rest my head. It felt lumpy. I unzipped the

case and found, wrapped in wedding paper, the yellow shirt. Inside a
pocket was a note: 'Read John 14:27-29. I love you both, Mother.'

That night I paged through the Bible in a hotel room and found the
verses: 'I am leaving you with a gift: peace of mind and heart. And the
peace I give isn't fragile like the peace the world gives.. So don't be
troubled or afraid. Remember what I told you: I am going away, but I will
come back to you again. If you really love me, you will be very happy for
me, for now I can go to the Father, who is greater than I am.. I have
told you these things before they happen so that when they do, you will
believe in me.'

The shirt was Mother's final gift. She had known for three months that
she had terminal Lou Gehrig's disease. Mother died the following year
at age 57.

I was tempted to send the yellow shirt with her to her grave. But I'm
glad I didn't, because it is a vivid reminder of the love-filled game she
and I played for 16 years. Besides, my older daughter is in college
now, majoring in art. And every art student needs a baggy yellow shirt with
big pockets.

April-craziness

2011-04-18T13:04:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday Edie Lane Gustin!... Jame and Ashley welcomed their sweet little one April 7th! Wes and I were able to go visit her last Saturday... she is just SO little! It is hard to believe only 4 months ago my little P was smaller than that! wow! Proud Papa James below... These are some pix of the infant baskets we are doing for the Bernard C. York Foundation!

They are full of formula, wipes, diapers, pacifiers, etc. After mother's pick up their baskets they are able to help themselves to our clothes closets to help dress these precious children. Attempt at family photo! Yes .. that is my ELDEST -AKA Bubba! Mr. Redneck decided he didn't want any clothes on and was in the process of undressing.. right in time for a Kodak moment! And Yes Perry is WAY too small for York's old walker but he LOVES it! I throw a sweatshirt in the front to help hold his tiny self up and he goes to town! ((Would have NEVER done that with York... I guess second children are different!))

My boys... sad Perry was looking down!! I had the honor of speaking to a local church about our Charity. My grandmother (momma jo's) sister does a Ladies Tea Party each year and they get together eat delicious food, enjoy entertainment and each other, and have a keynote speaker. I was blessed to be their 10 annual speaker and all donations benefited Bernard C. York foundation!! Woo hoo! They are a wonderful group of ladies and welcomed York and I with open arms. I was a little nervous about speaking but they made me feel right at home... Thx for all of your donations ladies you are giving innocent children a chance to stay healthy, full, and warm!

These are the ladies that won Hat Prizes!!

(Most creative, Most romantic, Most Beautiful, Most unique, etc)

This is My Momma Jo and Mr. York!

Momma Jo and I before I spoke~

York enjoying the TEA with tractors and trucks!

York and Zoe watching a movie... Good thinking Heather!

So these last 2 weeks have been CRAZY!!! We are always running up and down the road for some reason or another... I wouldn't have it any other way! We are gearing up for Easter and I'm getting the boys pictures done on Friday. Hope we can get some good one... and remember these sweet/hectic times! Enjoy your egg hunts and family time but remember why we are celebrating this Sunday...

1 Peter 1:3 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead...

Say What??

2011-04-14T15:01:00.000-07:00

Jabber Jaws weekly update

In the car on the way to "schim" swim lessons:

York - "Sching wouder momma... I yike dat!"

translation: Sing louder momma, I like that!

((Thank you York... You may be the only person on Earth who likes to hear me sing!))

In the car on the way to see a movie:

York - "Happy... movies make York happy"

((What a sweet boy!))

At dinner the other night...

York- "Daddy ... you tha bombed"

Mom -"Is mommy the bomb too?"

York -"no jus Daddy!"

((Thanks son!))

At the table for lunch this week:

I hear York telling Perry about his "goggles" and I tell York that that particular toy isn't a goggle and he says "Yes um is... Daddy says so!"

((GREAT! we are already starting this??))

I yell from downstairs:

Mom -"York can you help me make Perry's bottle?"

(trying to urge him to come down!)

York -"No mom... I too yittle!"

((He is too smart for me!))

We are driving down the dreaded 280:

York -"Wach out cars... mommy hit choo"

((Awesome! he understands my road rage!))

At my mother's house while we were away:

My mom was changing clothes and of course York is by her side...

York -"Mae Mae has BIG O BOOBIES!"

((Yes son... not everyone has A cups like your mother! eek!))

And lastly.. at dinner the other night!

York is spitting his dinner out -"I don't like yat! ucky!"

"York finish" as he pushes he plate away

((I hope this is because he had too many snacks and not because he is getting picky!))

My kinda FUN!

2011-04-11T08:31:00.000-07:00

Wes and I enjoyed last week in Sunny Florida! We went for business (hehe) to fish!! Wes had been invited to fish a Tournament and decided to take his lovely bride (aka ME) along with him. We had a blast and were able to "unwind" and enjoy being a party of two again! I desperately missed my rug rats and feel that 5 days is about 2 days too long! This momma will only be doing LONG weekends from now on! I missed them so badly and had a hard time enjoying myself the last two days! It was the best feeling pulling up to see York waving ... then running full speed to hug me when we arrived home! W. O. W. my heart was and IS so full! Perry grew 2 teeth while we were gone and York grew another 2 inches it seems. My sweet mother took care of them the entire 5 days.. what a SAINT! Thx momma! We are home and enjoying staying in PJ's and playing ALL day long! Of course Wes is back to work and missing out on all of our fun (ie: Sponge Bob watching, four wheeler riding, dirt digging, teddy graham snacking, baby cooing, slide climbing- my kind of FUN!) Glad to be back to our "world" and soaking up every second!

**Special prayer request for my best friends family as they receive medical news sometime today... this news will determine treatment options/plans. God please lay your healing hands on each of the family members ... especially Mrs. H!

Sweet P is 4! (months that is)

2011-03-27T14:21:00.000-07:00

Happy 4 months... sweet P!

I can't get enough of that face! Brother-Play York is such a BOSS... wonder where he gets that from? 2 peas in a pod... eating Chocolate Cake!

Best Buds

(disclaimer: these 2 do not ALWAYS play this nice)

We enjoyed family and celebrated my Papa's 84 th birthday in Montgomery...

York enjoyed the gold fish pond best!

York, Pop Pop, and Perry swinging at Mimi Perry's house

York feed the fish about 15 times...

Perry is MUCH happier after the third formula change!! whew...

We have finally completed the play room!

Here is a before picture

and after...

Yes... 3 walls are chalkboard paint! I have enjoyed drawing on the walls as much as York has! York is loving every minute in his new "baby cave". Momma is loving all of the toys out of her living room! York asks to go to 'PayRoom' ALL of the time and when we walk in he says "Wow!" It makes Wes and I feel so good! Send you KIDS and let them go to town...

This is his Super Bowl...

2011-03-23T12:40:00.000-07:00

Mommy likes surprises! Wes called me from work on Monday to say that he had an opportunity to fish a Billfish Tournament in Miami weekend after next. (FYI... for those of you who do NOT know Wesley -he is OBSESSED with deep sea fishing! This is his SuperBowl!) I immediately said YOU MUST GO! His reply was .. "Babe your going with me!" WHAT.. I can't just pick up and leave my babies that soon without some serious preparation! But sweet hubby knew my all to well and had already made arrangements for the boys! Woo HOO! There is a catch ladies... I must fish the tournament too! Apparently I have a good chance of winning the "lady angler" division because there aren't very many signed up. Although I am NO "lady angler" I have a CRAZY competitive side that will be driving this gal! No complaints here... to be in sunny South Beach for 5 nights (1 day of fishing) and a possible cash prize... my kinda vacay! For those of you who would like to see how we stack up to last years competition go to http://http://www.miamibillfish.com/. I am so fortunate to have a hubs who wants his "old lady" tagging along! I will have a gazillon pictures to upload of the fabulous getaway and hopefully I will be able to enjoy while missing the other men in my life! (York and Perry of course!!)

What a month....whew!

2011-03-18T20:02:00.000-07:00

York's expression explains how the last several weeks have gone! Perry is getting so big!! Sitting in York's old bumbo!

Looking around... still NOT a fan of "tummy time"

York loves his daddy's boots!

Goggie came to visit the boys and brought some GREAT goodies!

(She had a pace maker put in on Monday and is doing great! Continued prayers for quick recovery...

Sweet York heading to school

York loves to "tickle" Perry and P isn't so amused!

The "infamous" boot! Thank goodness its gone and I'm in a brace now!

York had to wrap his leg too...

my sweet baby boys..

holding hands

lady killer

SWIM LESSONS with Mrs. Jenny!

Not so sure about swim lessons... Day 1

A smile from P to get you through the day!

Spring Cleaning?

2011-03-11T21:15:00.000-08:00

Go to our charity blog: www.bcyorkfoundation.blogspot.com and check out what we've been up to! If you would like to donate any baby item (diapers, wipes, paci, bottles, car seat, stroller, ect), gently used clothing, shoes, or jackets (any size) Please let me know! I know many of you are getting ready to "clean out the closet" for spring things. If you want to make some \ones day/week/year ... think of us and we will make it happen! Each day we see the impact in our community and it makes all of the hard work WELL WORTH IT! Have a beautiful weekend!

the "boot" as in BOOT CAMP!

2011-03-03T10:07:00.000-08:00

Many of you know that I'm teaching Extreme Fit Boot camp 3 days a week at 5:30am. (www.extremefit.com) It is the perfect job for me... I can use my personal training certification again and get my workout in, help others obtain fitness goals, and be back home before the boys wake up! Monday night I was running with a friend and stepped off of the road and rolled my ankle. I immediately went down. ((I have a history of weak ankles and have damaged them many times)) This time however I heard a loud snap and swelling began immediately. My sweet friend (K) asked me if I needed her to carry me back to the house -piggy back style!... as much of a sight that would have been I couldn't allow her poor back to undergo this load! Wes came and got us and we assessed the situation. We decided that if the swelling didn't go down by the morning that I would go have some xrays. So Tuesday morning I headed to a "doc in the box" and figured they could tell me if it was broken or not. The x-ray revealed a broken piece of ankle bone but they were unable to tell if it was an OLD or NEW break. They would have to send my x-rays to be read by a radiologist. GREAT!!! My mom headed up from Montgomery to help me... The gave me crutches and told me to wait for a couple of days til they called back. So here I am with 2 babies, unable to bear weight on my left leg, and the business part of the month at our drugstore! Not great timing! In the meantime... I send a message to my boot camp class to come a little early to help my get the equipment out of my car and explained the accident. Two of the girls in my class work for an orthopedic and told me to call immediately and they could "fit" me in. After 3 hours of new x-rays, an MRI, and amazing new friends/doc conversation the mysterious break was explained. It is an old break but I have torn several ligaments which is causing the intense pain/swelling. The MRI showed there was no cartilage damage and nothing needed to be fixed surgically. YAY! They put me in a "boot" and crutches for the next couple of days until I am able to bear weight on it... then I wear the boot without crutches... then progress to a brace they gave me. This healing time should take 6-8 weeks with physical therapy. I DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR THIS!! My kids need me, my boot campers need me, my hubby needs me, and most importantly my lunch date friends need me hehe! My sweet mother in law helped me all day Tuesday and my mother has been here since then. They are a huge help and I wouldn't have been able to make it without them! Mom is leaving today and we will be on our own... I am able to get around a little better with the crutches now. So we should be ok! It has been a long week and I'm selfishly wanting to get back to running! Pics of me and the "sporty" boot coming soon! This weeks lesson:: God puts people in your lives at certain times for a REASON! Thx Jessica and Brittany!

"3 Months"

2011-02-27T18:46:00.000-08:00

Happy 3 Months... Sweet Perry!
My tiny baby is 12 weeks old today! I felt that time "flew" when York was an infant... add toddler to the equation and life is in fast forward. These have been the most challenging, most rewarding, most incredible 12 weeks of my entire life. Life as 4 has taken some time to get used to but has been a total blessing. Two little guys wanting Mommy's attention 24/7 and a husband that would like 5 minutes of attention has been quite the balancing act! The sleepless nights, hormonal cries, and stressful situations...all seem worth it when York leans over to kiss Perry's head, P looks up with an adorable smile, or I hear York tell P that he loves him from the other room. Moments like those melt my heart and make me wish I could freeze time. Perry is smiling and cooing and loves to be held. He is doing well with head control and absolutely despises tummy time. He already adores his brother and watches him most of the time. Perry is pretty easy going unless he is tired... he fights sleep worse than I have ever seen. He has been sleeping through the night since 8 weeks or so and I could watch him sleep all day. He has the cutest expressions while dreaming. He is absolutely adorable if I do say so myself!! I catch myself staring at him throughout the day thanking God for this precious time. They really do grow up entirely too fast and if you blink you might just miss something! So that's the skinny on Perry D.
More to come...

Be MINE!

2011-02-19T16:05:00.000-08:00

These 2 ARE and will always... be mine!

Jabber Jaws

2011-02-16T10:05:00.000-08:00

Not shocking .. I know! Wes and I both LOVE to talk so why wouldn't our offspring follow suit? York is talking alot these days and I have been meaning to "record" some of the funny stuff. He loves to sing and does so in the car, in the stroller, or at night time. Sometimes you can't understand the song but you will see "itsy bitsy" spider motions or "bunny foo foo" ears. Hehe! (one of my favorites!) As with ALL 2 year olds the dominate word in our home is MINE! Followed closely by NO! My dad liked to call me "jabber jaws" or "mouth of the south"! I will happily pass these sweet nicknames down to Mr. York! From now on the JABBER JAW posts will refer to my little mouth of the south.

This week in Jabber Jaw news:

Wes was snoring this AM and York (in our bed of course) looked over and said, "Stop dis Daddy, Stop dis Daddy! ahh" as he swatted his face!
We have been working on manners and we tell York to say Yes or No sir/mam. Well he hasn't grasped the gender part... so his response is always Yes sir or No sir!! Sorry ladies!
Today he fell going to get the mail and scraped up his little legs and looked up and said, Mommy kiss um, make feel bedda!"
Every morning when Perry wakes up York will look over and say, "Mornin Brada!"
"Luv ya P-dawg"
"Mommy lets go out der" -talking about outside
"Noooo SHUG Bad.. time out!" OR "Nooo Daddy.. time out!"
"Shug outside.. Go Go GOOOOO! 'mon Shug!"
"Mom, I workin" "hang on"
"My York Haryess"
When he wants another snack, "mom jus one more" holding 1 finger up! (gets me every time!)
"Shun-glasses mom... too bright!" as we went out to the swing set! (DIVA)
saying Prayers last night... "AMING"

These are just a few from this week... he is Mr. Independent and is growing up before our eyes! He is such a joy (even during the terrible 2 moments) As for Sweet P he is fighting a nasty cold that big brother passed down! We are doing breathing treatments every 4 hours, along with infant Tylenol for fever, and feeding a couple of ounces every so often. He has sick eyes and it just breaks my heart! Pray for a quick recovery for little man!

In other news... I accepted a part-time position with Extreme Fit Boot Camps!!! Thanks to my friend Kelly who "hooked" us up! She has been doing these Boot Camps for several months and is loving the results! I expressed some interest in helping if they needed anyone and if you know Kelly (Johnny on the spot!-Crazy networker!) she had me a job within 24 hours of my offer! I am happy to announce that I am Extreme Fits newest personal trainer on Monday, Wednesday, and Fridays in Mtn. Brook at 5:30 am!!! Woo HOO! If any of you are wanting a beach bod by spring ... give me call or go to www.extremefit.com and sign up under my class!

Boys will be Boys

2011-02-10T12:16:00.000-08:00

We have 2 sick babies on Snowshill Drive! It is horrible... York has been unable to shake his cold for several weeks. Saturday his annoying cold switched gears from irritating cough to barking cough, running nose, and high fever! I'm pretty sure he is swapping germs with the MDO children because someone is home sick from his class every other day! Well the Harless Household has been out all week! Now sweet P has the beginnings of a nasty cough and I'm praying he doesn't get a fever. We took both boys to the doctor on Monday and they tested negative for flu and strep and the doc said it is mostly likely viral... After 3 days of running fever, a million used Kleenex, raw noses, empty Pedialite bottles, and numerous cough/fever medicine "shots"... I think we see light at the end of the tunnel! My biggest concern is York's new found OBSESSION with medicine. He will cough and look at me and say "Mommy, CHOKE! Need med-cine please". He absolutely loves the taste of it and enjoys drinking it from the "lil cup" (as he calls it). As soon as he downs the liquid he looks at me and says "Rinse out!". He knows the drill all too well. It makes this Momma a little worried about his love of drugs! ahh!

Although I dont mind nursing two sweet boys all day and ALL NIGHT... the Cabin Fever that I have caught is making me a bit crazy!! Not to mention I had a slammed week before the "sickness" came to visit us.

This was the weeks line up:

York was supposed to start swim lessons on Monday (Mon & Wed)
MDO Tuesday and Friday
Monday meeting with nurse practitioner at Drug Store (for charity)
Pick up several bags of clothes from 2 locations on Tuesday (for charity)
Wednesday meeting with Social Worker at UAB (for charity)
Thursday meeting with Aquatics Director at Y for silent auction benefiting YMCA
Friday meeting w/ Executive Director at YMCA (assisting them with Strong Kids)
Friday night dinner at Bottega w/ friends before Brad Paisley concert
((not to mention the regular: eating dinner with friends, exercise, grocery shopping, etc))

Since all of that was a wash ... here is how the week has panned out so far:

Monday -York ran HIGH fever all am (doctor most of the afternoon)
Monday night up every other hour with boys bc of fever and P-eating
Tuesday sick boys napping and crying most of the day
Tuesday night -repeat Monday night
Wednesday -fever only in am, York had his first bite of food in 3 days (gold fish), York took a 4 hour nap in the afternoon!
Thursday -so far a much better day, York ate all of his waffle, played in playroom for several hours, is napping right this minute!! YAY!

I can't complain because both boys are still smiling and laughing and making my every minute so much fun (except for that minute this am when I was changing Perry's clothes and York decided to dump all of the water out of the tub into my bathroom floor!) That wasn't such a joyous moment! hehe! Looking back... it really wasn't that big of a deal and I come to the conclusion that boys will be boys!

Other News: We have completed the upstairs playroom and are enjoying it so much! I'm ecstatic that all of their toys are in 1 area and not in my den, kitchen, bedroom, etc!!! Wes did a wonderful job of creating the perfect space -even though he didn't LOVE my wall color choices. ((pictures to come)) Our Charity is taking off nicely! We have joined teams with a social worker at UAB that will be assisting our efforts in finding families with genuine needs to benefit from our goods and services. I've also been asked to speak at a Church event in April to a group of ladies who make donations annually to different charities. I'm so blessed they chose us.. thanks Momma Jo! God is doing BIG things and I am so excited. Picture post coming soon!

All we do is WIN, WIN, WIN... no matter what!

2011-01-28T12:11:00.000-08:00

Last weekend we packed up the boys and headed to Auburn for the National Championship Celebration! We thought it would be fun to take York to the stadium and enjoy the festivities! Wes planned a lovely weekend which included a weekend stay at Grand National Hotel (along with wonderful room service -which York enjoyed the most), a much needed spa afternoon, and birthday dinner with great friends at my favorite restaurant in Auburn! It was the perfect way to celebrate the big 2-7!! War Eagle Everyone!

Sweet P Update:

We had his 2 month check up this am... he is 11 lbs 2 oz (25-50%) and 22 in long (10-25%) so he is a shrimp! Wes and I are both short so this isn't shocking at all! He is doing well but she does think he has a touch of "colic" which we will be treating with probiotics (there really isn't any medication to "cure" colic) . At this point we will try ANYTHING! His fussy time is from around 6 pm to 11 pm. He is sleeping 8-10 hours at night and has been since 6 weeks old. So no complaints there... I will deal with some afternoon fussiness if I'm able to get a good nights sleep! He loves to smile and coo and likes to be talked to... he loves watching is brother! He will stare at York until he cant hold his eyes open any longer. It is the sweetest thing to watch! Earlier in the week "Skip" and "Suzie" came and watched the boys so Wesley and I could grab dinner and the boys had a ball!! They are the perfect babysitters... we appreciated the night out, guys! thanks so much!

P-dog

2011-01-20T12:22:00.000-08:00

That is what York is calling Perry right now! The other day Wes say, "It's okay P-dog!"... and York picked it right up. I'm not a huge fan of the nickname it reminds me of Randy Jackson on American Idol! (Which is back on... I swore I wouldn't watch this year but it has sucked me in yet again!) Maybe the nickname will run its course and something new will takes its place... until then I will have to tolerate it. I will have to admit it is pretty funny to hear York say, "Momma, P-dog FUSSY!" or "P-dog, wuv you" or my ALL time favorite "P-dog stinky!!!" (while plugging his nose) Below is a smile caught on film...

I couldn't post without including a pic of Mr. York-man! This was York yesterday standing at the front door watching the "workers". We are finishing out the room above our garage to make a playroom for the boys. So York turned into Bob the Builder and became the "Boss"! He was mesmerized by their tools and watched as they came in and out for hours... unlikely babysitter but I'm not complaining! Other York-news... he has an obsession with "money-sss" as he calls it! So I found an old wallet of Wesley's and gave it to him. Naturally we had to put "money-ss" in it! So I scrounged up 50 cents. ***Hold that thought for a funny story about the same 50 cents... Last week Wes and I put York in our bed to watch cartoons awhile before he went down for the night. He likes to jump on our bed (great parenting..I'm aware!) and build "boats" with pillows! As he did his nightly boat building Wes noticed a jingling noise... I didn't notice and continued to feed Perry. He asked York if he had something in his pants and York began laughing... As Wes took off his diaper he found the infamous 50 cents! I couldn't stop laughing and then proceeded to explain why didn't put anything in our diaper!*** That same 50 cents when into his new wallet. (cleaned of course) Then he proclaimed, "Mommy cards!" Smart Kid! So I decided to make him his own cards. I found a stack of pictures and I found a small pic of his face, cut it out, and pasted it to a piece of card stock and made it into his own AL Drivers Licence. We then found a picture of daddy and momma to put in there as well. He is so proud of that wallet and takes it everywhere! The only problem is that he is trying to "swipe" the driver's licence in between the kitchen cabinets. I realized at that point we go out to eat entirely too much... he knows that they swipe the card! I'm in TROUBLE!

We are headed to Auburn this weekend for the National Championship celebration. We are going down tomorrow afternoon spending the weekend in the loveliest village on the plains! I'm so excited because it is my Birthday on Saturday and I cant think of a better way to spend it than with my boys in Auburn! ((I'm also treating myself to a spa morning with a friend at my cousins beautiful Spa!)) I hope to get some great pictures to share with you all! Enjoy the rest of your week.... Ev, York-man, and P-dog signing off!

Check it out...

2011-01-16T00:11:00.000-08:00

Wes and I have started a CHARITY!! Please check us out at www.bcyorkfoundation.blogspot.com ! If you would like to help/volunteer let us know! If you know of a local family who would benefit from our services please pass our name along. Lastly, if you know a social worker (local) who works with newborns and their families I would love to get their contact information! Thanks guys and have a wonderful rest of the weekend!

Winner Winner... DUCK dinner!

2011-01-12T12:11:00.000-08:00

2011 National Champions!... It still hasn't hit me! The entire trip to Arizona was amazing and the game couldn't have been any more exciting! We enjoyed the company of close friends, amazing food, beautiful weather, and an experience of a lifetime! Below are some pictures that I took with my phone (and stole from Kelly's blog)... War Eagle !

Kate, Jay, Kelly, Heath, me, and Wes and Don and Charlies Steakhouse in Scottsdale, AZ!

Hanging out before the game at the Tostitos Tailgate Party

This was the view outside of our hotel room. It is Camel Back Mountain (named because it favors a camel's back.. thx to HHH for the explanation)

Wes took me to a sunset dinner on Sunday night... It was breathtaking! Thanks hubby!

Another view from our table...

Wes and Heath getting ready for the big GAME!

Helping some sweet Auburn ladies across the street!

Wes and I are so thankful to have been able to have this incredible experience! (thx Janey!!) Although we missed our boys like crazy we were able to relax a bit and enjoy some adult conversations, sight seeing, and Auburn Football! After delayed flights, missing pilot and crew, baggage issues, and frozen roads we were able to see our sweet boys and relieve both Grandmother's last night! Thanks Ya-Ya and Mae-Mae for watching our munchkins while Wes and I helped our Tigers bring home the NATIONAL TITLE!

Seeing double?

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Perry 1 month old...

York 1 month old

Perry at Birth...

York at birth...

What do you think? see any similarities?

Harless Ho! Ho! Ho!

2011-01-03T08:22:00.000-08:00

We had wonderful Christmas holiday celebrating the birth of our Savior! I am just now catching my breath from our travels... We enjoyed family, food, and gift giving! York loved opening gifts (all gifts were fair game!) He learned to say "Santa" and how to play the Santa application on my phone thanks to Sissy... he sang Jingle Jingle throughout the Christmas break... he didn't understand the concept of leaving Santa cookies -he ate them! sorry Santa!... he wanted to rearrange every ones tree decorations... and he enjoyed the bags, paper, tape, and ribbons on the gifts instead of the actual goodies inside! Perry enjoyed the festivities while dreaming of angels and waking up every once in a while to see who was holding him .. we played lots of "Pass Perry around"!!

Harless Christmas Marathon run down: We celebrated the York-side of family on Dec. 17, headed to Montgomery on Dec. 22 to visit, Christmas eve with Pinkston-side of family, Christmas morning with dad, Christmas lunch with Perry-side of family, Christmas dinner with Huey-side of family, Dec. 26 had a Pinkston family reunion then headed to the beach for a week with my mom, step-dad, sister, brother and our 4!... we spent New Years back in Bham by ringing in the new year in our SLEEP!... finally we celebrated Harless-side of Christmas yesterday!

Below are some pix from the crazy Harless travels! FYI.. packing 2 boys, a husband, and momma for a week in Montgomery and a week at the beach almost KILLED me! If I haven't lost my mind yet... I don't think I ever will! Kudos to all you mommas out there...

This year I decided to combine a Birth Annoucement and Christmas Card. I think they turned out really beautiful thanks to Inkspots and Polkadots!! Front: Perry Birth Announcement

Back: Harless Christmas Card
Brotherly Love

This was Perry 99% of our Holiday break

York and Turner at the Zoo Light Safari ... Loving some Aubie!

One of York's Favorite toys.. thanks BRAD and HOLLEE!

Enjoying this bag

Harmonica fun!

Sweet moment!

York and Mae-Mae's tree!

Caroline and York playing the piano

Family Picture

my sweet siblings

All of the cousins

back row: John Pair, Bryant Pair, Christopher Brown, Chance Perry, Cole Pinkston, Drew Brown

front row: Grant Watson, me, Caroline Watson, Kathleen Brown, Asthon Perry (Sisssy)

My sweet Boys (minus Perry)

Construction Zone

2010-12-13T11:13:00.000-08:00

We celebrated York's 2nd Birthday this past Saturday! I can't believe my little guy will be 2 this Friday! The days and weeks are flying by... so bittersweet! York is obsessed with his daddy's tools. Most of the time he carries around a tape measure, flash light, wrench, or screws. So doing a "Construction Zone" birthday was the perfect choice. I used my time on "bed rest" wisely and ordered all of the decor, invitations, napkins/plates, bouncy rental, party favors, and cake online. We had a blast and the weather cooperated for a perfect party!

Happy Birthday sweet York!

Newborn Pix

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Lauren of Fresh Grace Photography did an amazing job on Perry's newborn pictures. I couldn't be happier with her work... she came to our home and worked her magic! Check out her work at freshgracephotography.blogspot.com!

More Perry Pix...

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Ya-Ya helping out! Mimi with her great grandsons...
First time York held his little bro!

1 week old Little scratches on his checks... forget how sharp their little nails are!

Harless Boys!!

Meeting Sissy... Ride home from hospital...

Picture Post!

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Thx Allison for the "It's a Boy" keepsake ... it looked great outside our room!!

Wes takes a break while we wait to be discharged.

Sweet Kelly came to visit our little man!

Looking through the plastic crib... 24 hours old!

War Eagle... Baby!

absolutely kissable

Uncle James and Ashley giving some loveYork meeting Perry for the first time

So happy!

My sweet hubby ... amazing help!

Brother and Momma!

Pop Pop and York... love this pic!

York shutting things down...

Let me down DAD!

Proud Uncle Chance -who asked me if he had teeth! ha!!

Getting ready for Thanksgiving at MDO!

Last picture as an only child!

Visit from Cousin Potter!!!

Holding hands... sweet boys!

Potter and Perry both have that head full of hair! beautiful!

That Moment...

2010-12-01T09:16:00.000-08:00

Before I forget any detail I must blog about the birth of little Perry....

Thanksgiving Day/ Thursday- Nov 25: My mother, step father, and sister brought an amazing Turkey Day feast to our home since we were Bham bound. It was a beautiful day with much to be thankful for. I had very few contractions throughout the day and my plan was to "eat" my weight in dressing ... hoping to "evacuate" my little man! No such luck.. just a minor tummy ache from entirely too many sweets, casseroles, meat, and dressing!

Iron Bowl/ Friday- Nov 26: Wesley had to work so my mother decided to stay in Bham for the weekend to help me to my doctors appointment on Monday. (thank God for my sweet mother who has basically put her job on hold for the last 6 weeks for us!) I had a rough morning with a couple of painful contractions. We dressed in our Orange and Blue and got ready to watch our AU-some TIGERS! I spent most of the day in the recliner having some hard contractions ... still nothing consistent but noticeably more painful. That night was AWFUL... I was up having strong contractions every 10 minutes and called the hospital around 4 AM. They told me to wait until they were consistently 4-5 minutes apart...

Birthday/Saturday-Nov 27: After lots of water and pedialite they eased up some and Wesley went on to work... I had my mom so I didn't want him to sit around and wait for me to do something... when I could labor for another day or so. I was unable to eat my breakfast because of the pain I was experiencing but still no consistency to contractions. Mom and I decided to go to Olive Branch for lunch because I was getting hungry and I was going to be in pain regardless of where I was... might as well try and get a good lunch!? By the time my food arrived I had NO appetite and was cringing with pain. Still the contractions were not 5 min apart. My mom persuaded me to at least go get "checked" to see if I was dilating. So York, mom, and I headed to the hospital around 1 pm. I decided not to call Wes because we didn't want him leaving work for a false alarm. At 1:30pm the nurse checked me and asked me to "guess" how much I had dilated... After my discouraging "NO change" week before I told her that I hoped I was 10 but felt I was probably 2-3 if anything... She laughed and said "Well you are 5 centimeters and I can feel his head... I'm surprised your waters haven't broken!" WOW... I couldn't believe my ears! She then told me to gather my things that we would begin an IV, get blood work, and request an epidural that we would have a baby TODAY! After picking my jaw off of the floor I called Wes as they put me into room 8 around 2pm. Wesley arrived at Shelby Hospital (in Alabaster) from downtown Birmingham in only 20 minutes... he was so scared he would miss something! After they received my lab results they called for the epidural... which I got when I was 8 centimeters! Luckily it WORKED this time!! What a different experience than the first... Now wonder women have second and third babies! A total 180 from my first delivery. I was able to relax and chat with the nurses as I progressed to ten centimeters. It was amazing... this is how drugs are supposed to work! I began having alot of pressure around 5:30-6pm and they prepared for pushing. I pushed about 5 times and he popped right out!

Then it happened... the moment every Mom dreams about... the moment that was robbed of me during the birth of my first child... the moment in time when there is absolutely no doubt God exists... the moment all time stands still...

They placed a tiny new life across my chest. A long 9 + months you've waited to hold, kiss, snuggle, and stare at this precious gift. All is good in the world and Thanksgiving has never meant more than it did in that moment. I may have taken that moment for granted if I had gotten it with York... but because of the emptiness I felt as they took my first born from my womb straight to the NICU I will Cherish those sweet, pure, and priceless moments with Perry forever.

Bringing another life into this world is an overwhelming but incredibly rewarding experience that is just as amazing the second time. I think you feel more confident, together, and prepared for the second and your are able to enjoy and savor the minutes after birth more.

Perry is the perfect addition to the Harless Home and we are enjoying every second with this sweet child. York is doing beautifully with him... He says "brotha", "baby", "hey babeee", "John-Burke?"--I though he was calling him John Burke (Which is a great friend of ours little boy-that we are with all of the time!) but realized he was calling the car seat/carrier John Burke because they have the SAME one!! He loves to give him kisses all over and tries to put a paci in his mouth constantly! He is a bit rough but we are working on that. He climbed in his bassinet last night... luckily Perry was safe in the bouncy seat! He is wanting more of my attention than usual but that is FINE with me ... I missed him so very much during our hospital stay! I am trying to spend time with him away from Perry so he will know that he is important too and we love him very much. I think he will be a great help and a wonderful big brother! As for Wesley... most of you know he is an only child so when I told him we were pregnant again his mouth hit the floor! He has had 40 weeks to "process" that we would have 2 children soon, but it finally hit him last night! Picture this -York running around like a wild Indian (yelling, singing, throwing balls, climbing stools, etc) and Perry was screaming because he was STARVING... Wes walks in the door from a long day at work and I hand over Perry because I'm about to wet my pants! As Wes tries to soothe Perry and "discipline" York I take my 5 minute potty/sanity break! When I return Wes hands over Perry (who is still screaming at the top of his lungs) and tells me that York got a spanking because he was trying to climb in Perry's bassinet and that he needed a break because that was "intense". Really? Intense? I hadn't noticed... I guess Daddy's are just not wired like us Momma's! So York and Wes are adjusting to our new family of four and Perry and I are enjoying the ride! Life is so sweet right now and I am in love with 3 of the most amazing boys on this PLANET!

xoxo-Evan

(hospital pix, Thanksgiving pix, etc -coming soon!)

Introducing...

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Perry Daniel Harless

November 27, 2010

6 lbs 9 ounces

19 1/2 inches long We welcomed this sweet little blessing into our family at 6:36 pm on Saturday night! I will post more pictures and the "delivery story" next! WAR EAGLE by the way!!!

Stolen...

2010-11-24T11:54:00.000-08:00

A wonderful friend of mine does the A-B-C's of Thanksgiving each year and I decided to steal her idea and do one myself. Here goes!

Thank you, Lord, for...

A- the "alarm" that goes off ... that means I'm alive!

B- "best friends" that make bad days better, boring days- fun, and phone calls JUICIER!

(thx Mandy and Kelly!)

C- "clothes" that fit a little tight ... that means I have enough to eat!

D- the "dimple" on York's left cheek... it just makes a smile that much better!

E- the "energy" to keep up with my active toddler.

F- the "faith" we have that makes each day truly a blessing.

G- the amazing "GOD" that walks beside me daily... and carries me through the hard days!

H- the tiny "hands" that have recently learned to bow in prayer before dinner and at bedtime.

I- the "illness" that exist... that makes our health so much more precious.

J- the "journey" we are all on... each different but exciting.

K- the "kisses" from my boys...never enough!

L- the "look" York gives me when he wakes up in the mornings...no better way to start the day.

M- a "mess" to clean up after York... that means he had FUN!

N- the "nights" Wes and I can spend talking and catching up after York goes to sleep.

O- the "outrageous" reality television that has me HOOKED!

P- the "piles" of laundry ... that means loved ones are close by!

Q- the "quiet" time around 1pm in the afternoon while York naps and I can reflect on the many blessings I have been given.

R- the "restless" nights that are preparing me for the miracle of birth that is days away.

S- the "snoring" I hear each night from ALL of my boys including SHUG... this means they are safe and sleeping soundly!

T- the "taxes" we pay because that means we have WORK!

U- the "unanswered" prayers we whisper...for only God knows BEST.

V- the "vacations" I hope to go on as soon as this baby is born!

W- the "worry" that goes with being a MOM... that means I care!

X- the "X-tra" thought that goes into choosing the perfect Christmas gift... it makes it that much more appreciated!

Y- the little "yawns" during the day... that means York doesn't want to nap because he might just miss something.

Z- the "zero" time I have for myself... I realize this when a little man escorts me to the restroom daily, showers with me, brushes teeth beside me, and "cooks" in the afternoons with me. Precious time spent together that is going by too quickly...

Full Moon...

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There is a full moon tonight and I cant help but wonder if we will end up in labor before the night is done... We will see!! Maybe this is wishful thinking but as of now I'm having absolutely NO signs of labor. Time will tell! Good Night friends!

Evan

"I can't believe your still pregnant"

2010-11-19T11:33:00.000-08:00

A day in the life of a waddling pregger...

9:00 am -Rush York to Mother's Day Out (running late as USUAL- pop tart in car)

9:15 am -pulling out of Church parking lot racing to Hospital for doctors appt at 9:30!

9:35 am -pushing 3rd floor elevator button with back of my hand b/c I'm a germ-a-phob! (crossing fingers that all of my extra circular labor exercises have done their job)

9:37 am -sitting in waiting room with every other women in Shelby County!

10:00 am -still siting in waiting room trying to read the new book I bought but mind is on another planet trying to organize the next couple of days if we are going to get induced!

10:15 am -watching every other person called back to see the doctor when an emotional overload creeps in... what if there is NO change and I will be pregnant forever...

10:20 am -wondering why doctors offices make appointments

10:25 am -getting more anxious, shifting in uncomfortable chair because bum is going to sleep!

10:30 am -the lady on the intercom announces "Laura Harless to AREA A".... FINALLY!

10:33 am -step on scales to see I'm up 5 pounds from last week because on my 3 bags of fluid and fun hospital stay on Monday! A-W-E-S-O-M-E

10:34 am -blood pressure/ urine test both look great

10:35 - 10:45 am -waiting on Doc in area A.... waiting, waiting, waiting

10:45 am -"I can not believe you are STILL pregnant!" -doc says

After a nice pelvic exam (which I'm getting pretty used to -I think this totals 3 for the week) I could see it in her eyes... NO CHANGE! Still 1 and a half centimeters dilated she confirmed. I have begun thinning (about 30% effaced)... but absolutely NO more dilation! You can NOT be serious... insert Water Works! As tears streamed down my face the poor doctor said, "Evan he is just not ready yet!". Blog readers... I can NOT complain I feel great and I have prayed and prayed for a full term baby and that is just what I'm getting. It is just difficult to have originally set a date (next Tuesday) and mentally prepare for your baby to arrive and then all of the sudden your body doesn't cooperate and plans are null and void. God is teaching me patience and most importantly that I am not in control! W.O.W -did I just say that... not in control? Evan Perry Harless= Type A personality, Ms. Organized, Take Charge/or OVER attitude, Early Bird gets the worm, etc... can not control this situation!? Doesn't ADD Up! As much as I want Perry here... I am learning valuable lessons while thanking God that each day we are a step closer to bringing home a healthy baby and having a completely different delivery experience than with York. That makes me smile...

I would like to go into labor on my own ultimately and if this guy is a "Turkey" like his big brother then he might just come next week... that would be a blessing! If he decides to "set up shop" for another week then I see the doctor again on the 29th (a day before my original due date). My doctor left me with some parting words... "I will definitely not let you go past 41 weeks!" This hasn't even sunk in yet! 41 weeks... that is just NOT natural! Not to mention (insert anal mother to equation) that York's 2nd Birthday party is on Dec 11th... the weekend of 41 weeks!! O M G... lets don't even go there! HA!

So I picked up my sweet boy from school at 1pm and he is sleeping soundly beside me as I type... What an incredible gift God has given me and I will cherish these next couple of day/ weeks with more care and more attention to every little thing he does (from the way he pats my back when I pick him up to the sweet sound of his breath against my neck). He is our little man and holds his dad's and my heart in the palm of his hand. He makes each day sweeter and now more than ever I realize how important these last days are to savor and enjoy.

Until God and Perry decide... we will be waiting!

“Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”

– Proverbs 3:5-6

38 weeks...

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I'm officially 38 completed weeks pregnant (AKA a lifetime!) and never would have imagined reaching this point! Most of you know I had a little hospital stay this past weekend because of a "stomach" bug that got the best of Perry and me. 3 bags of fluid, 2 bags of potassium, and 24 hours later I was back in my own bed!! (Did you know... if they push Potassium through an IV without diluting it feels like your arm is burning off of your body -it was awesome) Perry looked good on the monitor (much better than I) and my contractions calmed down considerable once we were hydrated. (I was only 1 and a half centimeters dilated) Not sure if it was indeed a violent bug of part of what "I" do when labor is close. I did the same thing with York about 5 days before he was born. I return to the OBGYN's office (my second home with personalized cot) on Friday to see if we have progressed any further. If I have reached 2 centimeters then we will schedule an induction for Tuesday the 23rd! If I have NOT progressed I guess I will be pregnant until Christmas! HA! Just kidding... not sure what the plan is if that's the case. I have several newborn turkey outfits that Perry MUST wear! ... so he better decide to come on and make his debut soon! I have officially switched gears from the "keep him in" TO any suggestions to "get this guy out" will be greatly appreciated! FYI... I ate Chuy's (spicy Mexican) last night -I know you all are thinking I'm crazy for choosing that after a nasty episode of nausea/diarrhea but that is how READY I am! I have also resumed my "fast-walking" regimen and feel like I will urinate on myself at any time. All other suggestions will be considered! Until Friday...

37 weeks and C-O-U-N-T-I-N-G!

2010-11-09T12:26:00.000-08:00

WE ARE STILL PREGNANT! How I have prayed to see weeks 35, 36, 37, etc... Each week comes and goes and I can only lift my hands in awe of our marvelous God! Those uncomfortable nights, irritating contractions, Brethine induced nausea and shakes can not compare to the agony and emotional stress the NICU presents. To hear the doc say, "you are considered Full Term" made my heart smile and brought tears to my eyes. The feelings of failure and heartbreak from having to leave a child in the NICU quickly filled my mind. My body still aches, even now, with the flooding emotions of that time. It is a constant reminder of our many blessings and to remember to praise him especially in the good times!

My doc took me off of bed rest and Brethine this am and I can not be happier! I am to resume "normal" activity for someone who is 9+ months pregnant! I did ask if I could do some running and after she looked at me crazy she said absolutely NOT! ... and followed up by adding "you can do some fast walking". So I begin my "fast walking" regime today! It is back to picking up my little man, eating out, driving, washing clothes, cleaning house, grocery shopping, etc! I have never been more excited about daily chores!

If you are NOT a belly person... Proceed with CAUTION!!!

My sister accompanied me to my check up this morning and took this Oh SO flattering picture of my rotund 37 week belly! By the way, we are still not dilated or effaced and are waiting on Perry to decide when he would like to make an appearance! UNTIL THEN...

Milestones!!

2010-11-03T09:51:00.000-07:00

36 weeks and Perry is still in the oven!

Milestone... that was the word of the day at my doctors appointment Tuesday! We are so thankful that God has blessed us with 2 weeks (so far) of extra growth and development for our little P! Each and every minute he stays "put" is a sigh of relief and prayer answered. Doc says cervix is still closed and the Brethine and P17 shots are doing their jobs and she couldn't be happier! I am supposed to continue the Brethine until my next weeks visit (Tuesday) and then we will forgo all measures to STOP him from coming. I will be on my own at that point... So we could possibly have a baby next week or he may decide to hang out until the 23rd (induction day). My contractions are still persistent but the pills seem to be keeping them around 4-6 an hour. Which is acceptable for my doc... Crossing fingers that we will not be taking any more trips to Labor & Delivery until its the REAL DEAL! All of the nerves, doc appointments, and meds have overshadowed my emotions about our coming addition. As I washed the last load of baby laundry and stacked it away in Perry's drawers I realized that in a few short days or weeks we will meet York's little brother!! I became a teary mess... I looked around Perry's room at all of the things we used for York when we brought him home in such a fragile state. I would barely lay him down in his bassinet because I wanted to feel his sweet breathe on my chest. I prayed over him constantly thanking God for this little miracle and asked for his guidance every step of the way. It feels like yesterday I was swaddling his 4 lb body, pumping every 3 hours to make sure he would get the important stuff because he wouldn't nurse, and kissing his sweet little hands and feet over and over thinking life doesn't get much better than this! In 22 short months he has gown into a full fledged toddler with animated personality, sweet heart, and loving demeanor. As I packed him this morning to go home with Mae-Mae for a couple of days I realized that this little guy holds my heart in his hands... and I wonder how I will find the love necessary for another. Will my heart make room for the same amazing love I have for my first born or will it be different? My biggest worry is that York will be pushed to the side or overshadowed by the birth of a new child. I am already planning things that York and I can do together to help him with the transition. Of course he will probably do better with the change than I... I'm an emotional train wreck and have had too much time (bed rest) to think about such things! I can't wait for Perry to complete our family and look forward to savoring the short time we have with our children as infants. I pledge to take too many pictures, give too many kisses, and hold him way too much! It is an exciting journey that we will soon begin and I can't wait to meet this little life that has been growing inside of me for 9 months now!

"On" the GREEN for Halloween!

2010-11-01T08:14:00.000-07:00

Cutest little golfer...This is how our night started out...
After a few tears... we got the hang of things!

As long as we were on the "cark" (Cart) we were GREAT!

Sweet BOY!

Yes.. the hat was difficult to keep on!

Clubs on back... ball in Hand! Ready for some CANDY!

Happy Halloween, yall!

Our first trick-or-treating experience will definitely go in the books! We began earlier in the day showing York how to "ask" for candy by saying Trick-Or-Treat and holding your bucket out... Well of course we had to give him candy each time he so sweetly held his bucket out and said "Trit-tret"!! After Reese cups, dots, tootsie rolls, m & m's, etc he was WIRED for the night ahead. My mom began dinner as Wes, York, and I headed out on the golf cart (approximately 5:30pm) to visit a couple of neighbors homes. We pulled back in the driveway (approximately 5:45pm) with no candy and irritated baby. York was not loving his costume, no one on our street had their "lights" on, and Daddy was worn out! We decided that with a 9 + pregnant momma, tired daddy, and candy-crazed baby we would eat dinner and let York hand out candy! After our delicious dinner (THX MOMMA!) we anxiously awaited our first little goblin! Around 8pm we realized that the Harless Home was obviously not going to be visited by any candy monsters! So sad... We have a ridiculous amount of candy that must vacate the premises immediately. I find my wandering hands in the bowl all times of the day! A mini snicker here, a kit kat there, an eyeball for breakfast, or a crunch bar for dessert! Perry is definitely packing on the pounds this week! ... or my thighs are!! So that sums up our eventful Halloween 2010! Hope everyone had a wonderfully spooktacular day!

36 week Doctor appt Tuesday morning... will update everyone then!

Hangin' in there...

2010-10-29T18:47:00.000-07:00

York has been enjoying the Fall weather on his swing!Mae-Mae LOVE!
These pix capture York's animated little personality...
He was "calling" Da-Da and was talking up a storm!!
Happy Halloween!!

Still haven't forgotten about our mower!

As you can see... York hasn't skipped a beat with all of the hoopla going on around here. My mom has been here since Tuesday to take care of my sweet boy and he is loving it! He doesn't even notice ME when she is around. They are playing 24/7 and he is wearing her slap out! Mom is watching him all day, checking on me (making me STAY in bed), and cooking dinner for us at night. She is our maid, chef, nanny, etc and is absolutely amazing at each one! I can not thank her enough for her hours spent away from home/hubby/work. She is a precious gift that I am so lucky to have. Mom... you are one in a million and each minute we spend with you and memory made will be cherished forever. Thanks for putting your life on hold to help take care of ours!

UPDATE on "P"...

We made one more trip to Labor and Delivery on Wednesday night because I was having some other issues on top of the non stop contractions. I called my doc and she said to immediately return to L&D. So mom put the Chili on hold and packed us up to meet Wes at the hospital. We were put on a monitor that showed my contractions were not letting up with the medication so they decided to admit me for the night. After 15 hours of observation and 4 Brethine shots later we were discharged with another prescription and restless hearts. Because my contractions are "breaking" through the medication they are worried that at any moment I will dilate. Fortunately.. that is not the case so far. It is a very delicate situation and the only way to be sure is to go and get checked (FUN!). We are trying to prevent a repeat of a stressful labor and NICU stay. I'm 35 weeks 3 days which is a full week past York's date and that gives us wonderful peace. We know he is over 5 pounds and doing wonderfully but our goal is to keep him hanging on for another week at least. THE PLAN: Continue the meds/bed rest, see Doc on Tuesday for last shot! The shot is designed to stay in your system for 7 days so it will get us to Nov. 9... 37 weeks! At that point we will not try and stop Mr. Perry from joining our family! I am taking each day at a time... knowing that every minute assures us a healthier little man! God is so GOOD! Love you all and appreciate all of your thoughts and prayers this far... they are the only thing getting us through!

Perry Update...

2010-10-25T11:38:00.000-07:00

This past Friday I began to experience some back pain/ labor. I watched the AMAZING Auburn game in bed on Saturday and attempted Church on Sunday. After the first 40 minutes I was unable to finish the service. Wes and I went home and shortly after I began having irregular abdominal contractions along with the back pain. It was exactly like last time ... de ja vu! We decided to wait for the terrible storm to let up before driving to the hospital and waking York up. At 4AM the thunder and lighting got the best of Mr. York and he joined us in our bed (where we were counting contraction -length and frequency). We decided to head on to Labor and Delivery because Wes would be able to help me with York and if I waited until he went to work then I would have to take York by myself. (possibility of getting admitted with a 22 month old... not a good idea!) We arrived at the hospital and I was immediately put on the monitors and checked. Although my contractions were occurring somewhat regularly I was not dilated or thinning!! Music to my ears...as the sweet nurses plugged me up and brought me ice chips York began "working" the hallways! He was running up and down (Wes chasing him) telling all of the new mommies and babies about his tractor pajamas. **Remember: It is 5AM and I'm sure these families don't want to be awaken by my son yelling "Trat-tor"! But then I guess it is good practice for what they are "in" for!!** I was given my first shot of Brethine (drug to help relax uterine walls- i.e STOP contractions) ... I received shots of this with York and I forgot how awful it makes you feel! It makes you shake, jittery, and unable to catch your breath. Luckily, it basically flat lined the contractions!! Dr. H didn't want to admit me because I wasn't dilated.. but assured me if I begin to feel anything else or need piece of mind just to come right back! She said that things can change at any moment but with the combination of my weekly progesterone shots, Brethine pills, and BED REST we hope to keep him "cookin" for at least another week or two! Yes you heard it... the dreaded BED REST! I have been "in bed" for approximately 5 hours and I'm going C-R-A-Z-Y. I am not a napping, bed riding, or sit still kind-of-gal! I need to be doing something. So I have begun finalizing York's party details (cake/invites) and some ordering Christmas gifts online. If you guys need anything that I can do from the comfort of my own bed... Just let me know!!

Prayers Please! I will keep everyone posted.. I feel good and hope Perry does too!

Much love, Ev

PS. The coundown ticker on the right side of the blog is not my actual gestion in weeks... it is the countdown until my induction day (Nov.23)... Which puts me at 39 weeks. So technically I'll be 35 completed weeks on Wednesday. FYI... that is why we are trying to keep him put for just awhile longer. Just wanted to clarify!!!

Harless is My Name... Nesting is My GAME!

2010-10-18T11:10:00.000-07:00

nesting:
Obstetrics Frenetic house cleaning by a ♀ in late pregnancy, which is more common with the first-born child, fancifully likened to birds building a nest and preparing to lay and incubate chicks

nesting:
(Psychology) the tendency to arrange one's immediate surroundings, such as a work station, to create a place where one feels secure, comfortable, or in control

So the above definitions sum up what is going on at the Harless Household... WOW! I don't think I was able to experience full fledged"nesting" with York because he came so early. I am definitely making up for it with Perry! I am driving York and Wes crazy and probably most of my friends... so sorry guys!
I'm happy to report that we have surpassed a baby milestone... I have been dreading this day since the moment we found out we were pregnant. Yesterday was the day (gestationally) that we began Labor with York and a day that I have prayed we could just "skip" during this pregnancy. Luckily I feel great and am having no signs of labor so far... Hallelujah! The weekly shots have been a constant reminder that our family may be headed for another emotional roller coaster that is "life" with a preemie... Prayers and a wonderful family support system have kept my spirits high and mind busy with thoughts of how blessed we truly are. I know that God has picked the perfect day for Perry to arrive and all of my worries about bringing home a healthy baby are not worth entertaining!! I go to the doctor tomorrow to make sure we are still sailing towards the delivery of a CHUNKY little man!

Back to nesting... I'm am completely out of control! Below are some pictures of recent "Harless Happenings" BEWARE: it is a long post!

Let's begin with current obsessions:

York has a new obsession with the play lawn mower. We have to go everywhere with it and if you take it away you would think someone is cutting off his leg... seriously! Getting ridiculous! Here are some pictures of York and his new "friend".

York and Daddy's shared OBSESSION! The golf cart... we recently bought a golf cart for riding around the neighborhood, Auburn games, and beach time! To say the "boys" have enjoyed their first couple of weeks with their new toy is a total understatement. They are IN LOVE! This is York in is jersey after our WIN over Arkansas last week... War CAM Eagle!
Daddy's second OBSESSION: deer feeders! We have put out 2 in the last couple of weeks and I feel like we have another child with what it costs to keep these feeders full of corn.. Below is a picture from my phone this morning (9am) our first doe was partaking in our corn buffet! York is loving our nightly golf cart rides to "look" at deer. He points his mini light to the right and left and says DEERS, DEERS, DEERS! It is pretty cute... so it makes this obsession A O.K with me!
Feeder #1 behind our house on the hill...
Feeder #2 across the street from our house... so long to all of my plants!

Momma's obsession that goes right along with NESTING... bird houses! I have found so many cute ones lately and I am displaying them on our back porch! Also notice the slate work that Wesley did on our porch... so beautiful and COMPLETE! (mommy likes!) Thanks BABE!

Mommy's other obsession... these amazing milk chocolate "eye balls" filled with peanut butter, caramel, or fudge. Completely sinful... YUM! I bought these little boogers for our trick-or-treaters but I doubt they will make it to the 31st! Yes those are DOTS and tootsie rolls in the bowl as well. My thinking was to put out the "reject" candy in hopes that I wouldn't be tempted but one little look from these sweet treats and I was hooked. Sorry eye balls for every placing you in "reject" candy territory... never again! And my son is a sucker for the DOTS... he can almost reach the bowl to grab a box! Wesley opts for the traditional tootsie every once in a while... IN SUMMARY: this bowl stands NO chance!

This is a picture of two little boys playing on the beach... I thought it would be perfect in our Kitchen! I finally got around to hanging it this weekend (thx nesting) and I absolutely love it! I cant wait to spend time on the sandy white beaches with all of my boys... cant wait to make those memories!NESTING hits a NEW LEVEL

pictures framed- check!

Paddles rehung- check

Ships bell hung and frame made- check

autographed AU ball in glass- check
new books & keepsakes in book case- check

York driftwood original- check

curtains hung- check

fishing lure strung-check

re arranged bedroom- check
step stool (aka ottoman) for bed- check

both car seats installed- check

Bassinet cleaned/washed out of attic- check

pack-n-play washed -check

Diapers/ wipes from newborn to size 3 stored -check

bottles/pacifiers washed -check

Bed raised- check

new sheets- check

mobile out of attic- check

new boppy cover- check

bears assume position- check

Newborn to 3 month clothing washed and hung- check

drawers full of bibs, burp clothes, socks, onesies, gowns, shoes, diapers, wipes and creams- check

notice Perry's bag packed for hospital on the far left- check

sweet day gown Perry will be coming home in- check

Blue bunting Wesley's grandmother made for Wesley that Perry will wear home (if its cold)- check

Some tiny little monogrammed things for Perry -check

(I've been so worried that Perry would have everything handed down from York that I have been crazy busy having Slags Rags personalize anything/ everything I can find!)

York's new lunch box... isn't it GREAT!

York's Halloween outfit- check

Yes ...he will be a golfer to go along with his cart!

If Perry comes before Oct 31st (Lord willing he will wait a bit longer) he will be a gofer and we will celebrate all things Caddy Shack!

Dear Nesting,

Thanks so much for your visit... I have managed to finish everything for Perry and juggle daily playtime with York, supper for Wes, and time for friends. You are like a drug... wish I could bottle you up and SELL you! Along with your help I have planned York's 2nd birthday (cake/invitations/napkins/decor/inflatable/etc), set up newborn photographer, baby announcement/ Christmas cards, and begun Christmas Shopping! You are just what the doctor ordered! Your presence in my life at this time is much appreciated! If you don't last much longer... It was a good run!

Holiday Baby...

2010-10-12T13:20:00.000-07:00

Perry and I had our weekly doctor's appointment today and things look GREAT! We went ahead and scheduled INDUCTION day... WOW! Partly because I am a control freak and also for the sake of planning for Turkey Day! We choose November 23 the Tuesday before Thanksgiving. I really wanted the 22nd because that is my sweet Daddy's bday and Mr. Perry's namesake... but our insurance wouldn't let this guy budge a day before 39 weeks! So we will settle for the 23rd and plan to take Turkey and Dressing to the hospital!! Dr. H doesn't think we will make it to Induction Day but I guess we will see... I would be thrilled if he decided to make his debut sometime around the 9th... only because he will be 37 weeks gestation and good and FAT and ready to be loved on and brought home immediately! So much for planning... 3 more shots to go and it will be up to Perry and me to keep him "cookin". Below is a picture from York-man this morning at the doctor... he was such a great sport considering we were in the waiting room for an hour and a half!! He is all smiles all the time... I just love this little guy! (notice our chair-o-toys) York and Mom's new obsession... my double stroller! York will no longer acknowledge the B.O.B. He climbs up in the new stroller and points to the other seat and says "Down" ... wanting me to sit beside him! Hilarious! We took him and "imaginary friend" on a walk for the first time last night... It drives like a dream!!
Just a swingin...

If your wondering if the play set is complete... It's NOT! That's okay because the swing -swings and the slide- slides! We are in business... happy Tuesday everyone!

Also a little shout out to my MOMMA (aka Mae Mae) Happy Happy Birthday!!... enjoy your relaxing beach get away and come visit soon! We love you!

Peter Peter ... Pumpkin Eater!

2010-10-07T12:07:00.000-07:00

York and I joined some friends this morning to pick out some pumpkins! After 1 "run away" pumpkin, several falls -resulting in dirty clothes, and sword fights with mini scarecrows... we headed to the park. It was a beautiful morning full of fun... Enjoy our pix!

Happy FALL! Enjoying these last couple of weeks just me and my little man!